We've been together for 9yrs and he's never actually cheated on me but 68% of me thinks my husband is secretly talking to someone on his phone and has been for months. 32% of me thinks I'm paranoid. But I know he's not physically cheating. I always know where he is, who's he's with, and what he's doing. and there's no actual time for him without me around to cheat. I know where he sleeps every night (with me). He says if I want to know something just ask and he'll tell me the truth. I don't want to be crazy and just accuse him of stuff. Is just me and I have trust issues? I don't want to push him away. so should I dig for who? And if I dig how do I do that and how do I not get caught. Or leave it alone? (Whatever happens is gonna happen regardless of what I do) ? And if he is talking to someone else would he really just tell me?