Why haven't you fallen out of love?

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For the people in relationships I must ask, are you still in love with that person? If you are how do you keep the spark? And if you aren't why are you still there?

Answer 1

Daniela1982 | 669 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Some do, but they sometimes fall back in love again.

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Answer 2

lucky840

Xper 5

I love my guy as much if not more than since the beginning of our relationship. I think he is the sexiest man I've ever touched. Been together over 9 years. Things have changed some with us grown older but in our hearts we don't want to be apart. Honestly I don't know how we keep it together sometimes but we make it though

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lucky840

1 y
I guess communication. Is probably what keeps us on track. Though sometimes we loose it but we both notice when we do and try to work on it together

Answer 3

lucky840

I guess communication. Is probably what keeps us on track. Though sometimes we loose it but we both notice when we do and try to work on it together

Answer 4

ItsTheNephilim | 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Because my mind doesn't let me off and take things like my partner to be taken for granted. Not to mention, as amazing as my girl is, it's up to me too to cherish and appreciate what and how she is. The way she has shown commitment, the way she cares about me, the way she understands me, the way she is loyal to me, the way we get along with each other, the sense of belonginess I get from her, the way we communicate.. I mean what's not to love about this and her? It feels as fresh as a daisy to me.

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sensible27

1 y
Refreshing, hope for the best... : )
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 thanks, buddy :D
sensible27

1 y
Highschool sweethearts?
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ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 haha no.
sensible27

1 y
How long? College?
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 3 months. Not college; LDR.
sensible27

1 y
Met her online? Dating site?
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 here.
sensible27

1 y
Oh oh, whos is it?
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 it's @ZELLxoxo
sensible27

1 y
Sent her a follow request, doubt I have seen her before though... she around a lot? Indian?
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 not Indian. A Pakistani. Doesn't use this site much anymore.
ZELLxoxo

1 y
Fresh as a daisy :D

Tum bhi na.. you write so beautifully :)
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@ZELLxoxo ;))
Shukran 😌
sensible27

1 y
Happy independence day lol, to both, belated to one. : )
ZELLxoxo

1 y
@sensible27 Happy independence day :))
ItsTheNephilim

1 y
@sensible27 ahah. Happy independence day.
sensible27

1 y
@ZELLxoxo why's your name that?
ZELLxoxo

1 y
@sensible27 its not my name :D
sensible27

1 y
*I meant username... @ZELLxoxo just to not make this awkaward, me asking this is not exactly uncommon. How did you get the 'zell' and xoxo? What's that?
ZELLxoxo

1 y
@sensible27 its just a random name really :D

Answer 5

sensible27

Refreshing, hope for the best... : )

Answer 6

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 thanks, buddy :D

Answer 7

sensible27

Highschool sweethearts?

Answer 8

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 haha no.

Answer 9

sensible27

How long? College?

Answer 10

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 3 months. Not college; LDR.

Answer 11

sensible27

Met her online? Dating site?

Answer 12

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 here.

Answer 13

sensible27

Oh oh, whos is it?

Answer 14

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 it's @ZELLxoxo

Answer 15

sensible27

Sent her a follow request, doubt I have seen her before though... she around a lot? Indian?

Answer 16

ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 not Indian. A Pakistani. Doesn't use this site much anymore.

Answer 17

ZELLxoxo

Fresh as a daisy :D

Tum bhi na.. you write so beautifully :)

Answer 18

ItsTheNephilim

@ZELLxoxo ;))
Shukran 😌

Answer 19

sensible27

Happy independence day lol, to both, belated to one. : )

Answer 20

ZELLxoxo

@sensible27 Happy independence day :))

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ItsTheNephilim

@sensible27 ahah. Happy independence day.

Answer 22

sensible27

@ZELLxoxo why's your name that?

Answer 23

ZELLxoxo

@sensible27 its not my name :D

Answer 24

sensible27

*I meant username... @ZELLxoxo just to not make this awkaward, me asking this is not exactly uncommon. How did you get the 'zell' and xoxo? What's that?

Answer 25

ZELLxoxo

@sensible27 its just a random name really :D

Answer 26

sensible27 | 646 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

If you have to 'keep' the spark, I guess it's already dead.

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just_a_potato

1 y
Well being with someone for a long time can get pretty boring anf stressful when you don't try new things in a relationship, but that's only the ones that lasted long in the first place
sensible27

1 y
If you're monotonous and boring you're monotonous and boring, a relationship and trying to make the relationship not boring is something you start to do when you've already 'lost'.
just_a_potato

1 y
Mmmm nice insight

Answer 27

just_a_potato

Well being with someone for a long time can get pretty boring anf stressful when you don't try new things in a relationship, but that's only the ones that lasted long in the first place

Answer 28

sensible27

If you're monotonous and boring you're monotonous and boring, a relationship and trying to make the relationship not boring is something you start to do when you've already 'lost'.

Answer 29

just_a_potato

Mmmm nice insight

Answer 30

BlueScorpio | 82 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 5

Because I love him <3 We have so many things in common, we love horror movies, we like to go out to different places, we love dogs, and laugh a lot. Plus snuggling is always the best.

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Answer 31

Definitely | 75 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

Because I worked for it. You fall out of love when you stop working on it.

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jahaims | 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Because we have continued to grow together and achieve our life goals.

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Answer 33

Liam_Hayden

Guru

The spark isn't love. The commitment is the love. If you really upon fleeting emotions, your relationship is doomed.

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Answer 34

adamKing

Xper 5

by the way your young so you don't know what love is you mistake it for sexual tension or passion, love is simply being there when you hate the other person's guts.

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just_a_potato

1 y
I hope you aren't talking about me.
adamKing

1 y
I meant you
just_a_potato

1 y
First off I didn't make this question for myself I was just generally interested in what others had to say, second how would you know if I fell in love or not just because of how old I am? It shouldn't be based on something so simple and straight to the fact when people are so complicated, That's why highschool sweethearts exist. Third if you were going to write this you could have at least actually answered my question, and too be frank this whole opinion annoyed me for these reasons. 😒
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adamKing

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1 cool, but remember half marriages end end devirce this happens because of what i mentioned earlier mistake love for something else
2 age tells the maturity of your conception of reality, like if you we're to have a job or spend time with old people you would get what I'm saying, lashing out isn't mature by the way
3 i did they don't all keep the spark some get divorced others who do keep it know that spark wasn't sexual- doesn't fade thus don't need to keep doing stuff to maintain it
just_a_potato

1 y
I'm not lashing out, I'm angry because you are assuming something about me. Those are statistics and I'm not a statistic. I asked about your personal life not anyone else's, thank you have a good day.
BlueScorpio

1 y
That's not love, that's simple settling and tolerating a person's existence who you have no connection with. This is why so many people are heartbroken cause they stay in relationships that aren't meant for them.
adamKing

1 y
😂 I'm guessing you're single

Answer 35

just_a_potato

I hope you aren't talking about me.

Answer 36

adamKing

I meant you

Answer 37

just_a_potato

First off I didn't make this question for myself I was just generally interested in what others had to say, second how would you know if I fell in love or not just because of how old I am? It shouldn't be based on something so simple and straight to the fact when people are so complicated, That's why highschool sweethearts exist. Third if you were going to write this you could have at least actually answered my question, and too be frank this whole opinion annoyed me for these reasons. 😒

Answer 38

adamKing

1 cool, but remember half marriages end end devirce this happens because of what i mentioned earlier mistake love for something else
2 age tells the maturity of your conception of reality, like if you we're to have a job or spend time with old people you would get what I'm saying, lashing out isn't mature by the way
3 i did they don't all keep the spark some get divorced others who do keep it know that spark wasn't sexual- doesn't fade thus don't need to keep doing stuff to maintain it

Answer 39

just_a_potato

I'm not lashing out, I'm angry because you are assuming something about me. Those are statistics and I'm not a statistic. I asked about your personal life not anyone else's, thank you have a good day.

Answer 40

BlueScorpio

That's not love, that's simple settling and tolerating a person's existence who you have no connection with. This is why so many people are heartbroken cause they stay in relationships that aren't meant for them.

Answer 41

adamKing

😂 I'm guessing you're single

Answer 42

asshole_

Yoda

Why haven't i fallen in it, yet

im 31

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just_a_potato

1 y
💗💗💗
asshole_

1 y
What's with the hearts?
just_a_potato

1 y
It's for good luck duh
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asshole_

1 y
oh, ok
BlueScorpio

1 y
I'm confused.. what does that have to do with anything?
asshole_

1 y
what

Answer 43

just_a_potato

💗💗💗

Answer 44

asshole_

What's with the hearts?

Answer 45

just_a_potato

It's for good luck duh

Answer 46

asshole_

oh, ok

Answer 47

BlueScorpio

I'm confused.. what does that have to do with anything?

Answer 48

asshole_

what

Answer 49

Jjpayne | 2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

I've got to fall in love first 😊

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chrismarie5589 | 51 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

Nope he has been treating me horribly recently

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OceanMelon | 169 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 7

Because I'm stuck in the hole I named love.

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COMMODOREII | 2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

I want to fall in love.

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