I'm just wondering, is it possible to stop loving someone? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we have been through so much, and he just told me that he doesn't really love me anymore. That for the late 2 months, he wasn't even sure about his feelings (meaning, he lied to me about his feelings). That while he was telling me "love you too" he was cold as stone. But he doesn't change his opinion that he really loved me so much, but stopped for some reasons, which are irrelevant right now. I never stopped loving him, and probably never will. My opinion is that you either love someone or you never will. There is no in between, there can't be " i stopped loving you" .