I am very independent. I had to be my husband ended up in prison my babies were 1&2 I was 24 . Nobody helped me with a damn thing. He got out and died of a brain aneurysm. Every man I tried to have in my life cheated on me , used me, or just treated me like a straight doormat. I'm thinking it has to be something I do wrong. How do you keep a man from treating you that way?