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They cheat for emotion, money/resources
Besides if a man gets laid he worked hard for it, even if it was indirect work. A woman goes online and regardless of how nasty she is she can have 450 thirsty losers begging to bang her. Anyhow it’s worse when women cheat & pregnancy happens since she can lie about who the dad is. A woman can give birth to a lie & earn money for 18 years. Men can’t do that
@hahahmm Truth spoken, Dr Manhattan
That's good you've precised you're a good guy cause it's not so obvious 😉.
@BlackCatBone I know how that that sounds especially coming on the same post where I admit to cheat before.
Kind of like when people say:"I don't want to be mean but...". Whatever... Just saying 🙃
@BlackCatBone for whatever is worth I really felt bad for what I did after and never again.
Never act In a way that leads you to apologize afterwards."Sorry" isn't enough.
@BlackCatBone I would understand if they would never forgive me again. But the girl I cheated with, how I knew liked me and used, actually did forgive me and we still talk today.
Once a cheater, always a cheater... Good for you if she did forgive 😏.
@BlackCatBone I am familiar with that sentence. I can assure it's not true. I am actually married now. I never cheated on her and hell will freeze over before I do.
Yeah, yeah... Whatever helps you sleeping at night 😉.
@BlackCatBone I was actually trying to help you sleep better at night. By letting you know that not everyone that cheated once will cheat again. I always thought that however believed that probably had some issues. Like got cheated in the past and can't forgive.
The only truth here is that I don't forget 😉
@BlackCatBone no one is saying that you should. Forgive and forget are two different things. Still I get if you don't forgive. I wasn't expecting any of them to forgive me either.
"Any of them"... Interesting 😉
@BlackCatBone yes the girl the I cheated on and the girls I cheated with. One situation only.
And you lied to both I bet 😏
@BlackCatBone I lied to my girlfriend by cheating and I lied to the other girl saying I would leave my girlfriend for her. I should had ended things with my girlfriend before I cheated and start a relationship with the other.
ObviouslyIf some girls forgive this after all... Whatever lol.
@BlackCatBone not something I will ever do again.
As long as you believe it...
@BlackCatBone I know it.
No, you BELIEVE it. Good luck 🍀.
@BlackCatBone what do you think is going to happen? That I will cheat on the first opportunity? Because I had that first opportunity, and more. Never happened.
You're still young. It will happen again.
@BlackCatBone you Talk like I have no saying in the matter. No one has more saying in the matter than me. And I say no. See how easy it is?
However this isn't about what you say here, but about your actions. You never what will happen in 2 years, 5 years, 10 or maybe 20...Anyway, I don't care honestly. I have nothing to do with this.
@BlackCatBone My actions will be the same in 100 years. I proud myself in being a good guy now. If for some miracle the love for my wife isn't enough my pride will.
"Now" but it wasn't the case before... People don't change... But as I said: "believe whatever you want".
@BlackCatBone I didn't do it out of lust. I was in a dark place at the moment and the girl I cheated with was there for me. Unlike my girlfriend. And people grow. To even think about cheating on my wife... It really sounds impossible to me.
Who are you trying to convince? Me? Yourself?
@BlackCatBone Oh no I am sure of this. But I honestly feel insulted when someone even thinks that I could cheat on my wife. It's my wife!
@BlackCatBone I love her so much she is so important to me!
And you didn't love your girlfriend?
@BlackCatBone not half as much.
@BlackCatBone I agree. I do feel bad for what I did
@BlackCatBone I mean it.
Yeah yeah yeah... Not my problem.
@BlackCatBone Never going to be mine either.
It looks like it is lol
Based on your responses lol.
@BlackCatBone what about them?
It looks like you're trying to justify your behaviors.
@BlackCatBone Oh no. I was wrong in what I did.
I guess we've talked enough here and it wasn't the subject. I don't really understand why they've forgiven but... Whatever
@BlackCatBone honestly neither do I understand why.
My guess is laziness.
@BlackCatBone what does that have to do with it?
This is the reason why they forgave you. In my opinion.
@BlackCatBone laziness? Why is that a reason to forgive someone? It doesn't take energy to forgive.
Exactly. Staying mad at someone is way harder than forgiving. So people who forgive easily are simply lazier.
@BlackCatBone I disagree. Forgive someone that caused you harm is way harder then staying mad.
Sorry but no. As I said staying mad at someone and not forgetting is time consuming. Forgiving gives you the opportunity to let go and stop thinking about it.
@BlackCatBone Letting it go requires you to forgive. Depending on what the other person did forgive can be very hard.
Hard for your self-esteem, yes.
@BlackCatBone also yes.
But easier for the mind.
@BlackCatBone after forgiving sure. But that is not a easy step to take.
Yes both actually! Depends on the individual
Women always cheat. Men don’t.