I was dating a guy for a month or so and we went on so many good dates and he really makes me happy. We have had sex. After this I asked him what he wanted because I was confused about it all. He told me he didn’t want anything serious and that me and him are just some fun, he said he’d really consider us serious if it wasn’t for his pro football he just started which I said I understood and that we can just have fun then. Since then we don’t speak everyday but he has a match on Saturday and I just wanna ask him how it went but will this drive him away. I’m so upset I really thought we’d work out. I do wanna have fun with him and hang out with him but I do want it to eventually go more than that.