My girlfriend always brings up her weight, what do I say?

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My girlfriend is about 160 pounds and 5'4. I am 5'6 125 Pounds. She always talks about how she hates her weight and I tell her that I don't care what she looks like, but she should lose weight if it would make her happy and more confident. However in reality I want her to lose like 15-20 pounds, for her health and cus I think she would look a bit more in shape... Weight is not a deal breaker for me cus she is so great in every other way, I'm just wondering if I should straight up tell her my opinion on it cus I know it will hurt her feelings. I also don't like how she will sometimes be sad about her weight, when there is an easy solution, just eat healthier. I would know cus I used to be 165 pounds but I lost a lot through dieting only. So I am not completely ignorant when it comes to this topic. She just always says that she is too fat for me... That's a pic of her.
My girlfriend always brings up her weight, what do I say?
My girlfriend always brings up her weight, what do I say?
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