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Amazingly said! Most people tend to forget about that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. They tend to focus mostly on physical acts.
@TruthBringer - When I found 1500 texts in one month to one number on my wife's account, I asked WTF!!! Shut that shit down instantly. Then she did it again with an old class mate that lives in a different state, whom happens to be a lesbian. So that's her lesbian lover. ;) LOL She's gotten over that bullshit. She keeps busy with her job. Women are highly susceptible to do this, it starts out innocent enough. But they develop an emotional connection, and thrive on the attention and the intimacy. Next thing you know they're planning a secret rendezvous, and you know what happens next, right?
@Browneye57 Exactly. This is most common with friends of the opposite sex. In many cases, it ends up sabotaging the relationship because one cheated with a "friend". I'm a strong believer that men and women can rarely be platonic friends. I don't have female friends and my girl doesn't have male friends. This is a requirement from me. Either take it or leave it. I'm not going to allow my girl invite others to sniff around my territory.
@TruthBringer - That falsehood of platonic mixed-gender 'friends' has already been debunked. Do a search on youtube - some interesting interviews and polling down with college kids. There's a reason people are attracted to each other - one or the other will ALWAYS want more.
You nailed it. There are so many stories out there of "cheated with her guy friend" or similar like that. There is a reason why most people aren't okay with their partner having "friends" of the opposite gender. Especially women are often insecure about this. Some just choose to stay silent.
@TruthBringer - All women have a backup plan - guys they keep in the wings so to speak, guys they are 'friends' with. In many cases they don't even realize they do it - it's just them being 'friendly'. But if the chips are down, they've got someone to call, I guarantee it. Guys would do well to employ the same tactic. Just have a few backup plans in case she doesn't work out, and decides to go chasing Chad Thundercock. :)
@Browneye57 Yeah reminds me of my previous ex. Immediately started to contact her orbiters as soon as I broke up with her. She is a serial dater afterall. 3 months later I got with my current girlfriend and this was not even me having backup plans lol. I just hop on Tinder and start matching and getting laid until I find a decent girl to get in a relationship with.
@Browneye57 I also forgot to mention, my serial dater ex saw me with my current HOTTER girlfriend one day. She instantly looked upset 😂
This is one of the best answers that is from the male perspective. And it’s even better that it’s coming from a 24 year old guy, because I used to think guys with your same view on what defines cheating weren’t just a dime a dozen, but that they didn’t exist at all! Good to see I was wrong. :)
Thank you☺ I enjoy helping others find their way. So hope this helps.💙
Really. That's cool by you?
@andretaymal nope.. i was just saying what Cheating is to me... most peeps feel it is having sex with another person..I don't go for this... if I am not happy with my SO, i leave them and find someone new. Cheating is wrong, bad, and hurtful.
So you left them because they cheated on you?
The best answer here.
"breaks trust in a relationship
Participants (disambiguated); the members of the pre-existing relationship whats terms are to be violated by cheating.
Yup! If you wouldn’t be comfortable sitting beside your partner as they scrolled freely through the texts sent between you and your “friend”, because you know the texts would likely hurt them in some way, you’re betraying your partner.
So for you & him is kissing and touching boobs/butt/genitals of someone outside of your relationship OK and NOT CHEATING?And what about out of relationship oral... is that ok too?
@Gagname it’s inappropriate but I don’t consider it cheating. Kissing isn’t sex and neither is making out.
Inappropriate... but you could give a HJ or a BJ to some random guy you met and your boyfriend would be ok with it (if he found out that you did that, you wouldn’t be accused of “cheating on him)?
@Gagname I wouldn’t consider that cheating. If he’s uptight and does then that is his problem and maybe he isn’t ready to accept me as I am. If he wants to be insecure and controlling like that then maybe I wouldn’t want to be with him either.
Wow Sammie, very naughty (to me). Thanks for being so open on here about this! Have you and he ever discussed what is/is not acceptable with regards to doing stuff with people outside of their relationship?
i guess a special snowflake downvoted me. how cute.