I’m glad you found love. So you married the one you cheated with?
Yes. We worked together, something I cannot recommend. At one point the company forced me to fire her. Can you imagine that happening today?There were LOTS of women, even a college co-ed for a couple of years. But this last one was the most gorgeous woman I had ever laid eyes on. I wanted her, she spurned me. But we were friends for a couple of years, and I kept telling her I wanted her. She finally relented. We are growing old together, still madly in love. It hasn't always been easy. And that divorce cost me right about a half-million. The ex thought cooking cleaning and fucking were three cities in China. :)
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Cuz it's never that simple. I guarantee it.
What do you mean it’s never that simple
Well, let me create a 'scenario' for you...You find Mr. Right, you guys hit it off, you fall in love, you marry, pop out a couple of kids, and he turns into a lazy slob. Works hard enough, provides for the family, but he's lazy AF, spends all his free time laying on the sofa drinking beer and watching football. After a few years the kids are off to school, you're looking pretty good, recovered well from your pregnancies, in good shape, feeling great. And BORED OUT OF YOUR FUCKING MIND. So you take up at the local gym for something distracting and to keep in shape. There you find CHAD THUNDERCOCK. And he thinks you're just HOT. And you LOVE the attention. He invites you out for smoothies. Tells you how fantastic you are. Then you go home to your loving children and your fucking asshole husband. Tell me what happens next. :)
Check out my own reply on this Q. BTDT, got the t-shirt. Cheated the shit out of wifey ver 1.0. That's how I found wifey ver 2.0 A much pretty and younger version, that has been a delightful partner for over thirty years.
They don’t have to marry guys that throw a tantrum over it. I think these are things that need to be discussed before marriage. No one should ditch friends for a relationship in my opinion it’s not healthy and it’s a Red flag if a partner expects you to. “ in my opinion “ 😛
@VIVANT you are right but even among very open minded women from U. S compared to my own country many are like that though some are open to becoming friends without always assuming a guy is always up to her pants😅. That is a weirf assumption many girls do take
Sadly then it means there is many people this way i meet so many females on instagram that dont tell she has boyfriend or married and they even lie that they are single or married and i see they are not. ATF
I agree it happens a lot , I even experienced a few that I got with to find out they were secretly married. Cheating on their husbands with me , so it just goes to show how screwed up this world is when it comes to relationships and sex , if you find one that values you and loves you and doesn’t keep dark secrets , keep her because they are very hard to come by these days. And I know men do this shit as well so finding someone that values you and wants you the same as them , keep them
They think they wouldn't*
That makes sense
I would agree
Yeah that’s true
Why not break up then
I can't answer that, people have different personalities. Some might not get the courage to face the truth, some might wanna hold on to it as a backup.
Why not break up with the other person then
Because they know how special that person is.
I wouldn't say that I know many people who don't believe in marriage if your not religious why still go to a church and have a priest give you away, anyhow they've been together for 15 years now, have two kids together and have lived togather for around 13 years, but according to your logic they're single
@19magic. I hear you about formal marriage contracts. I know people who don't believe in them or have financial reasons for not going there. Ethical people can essentially be married without a legal contract. I was talking about boyfriends and girlfriends - a different scenario. Would either of the people you mentioned, who've been together for 15 years and have two kids, lie about being single?