Is it a good quality for a person not being in a relationship just to avoid pain?

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Now I was reflecting on myself for self improvement and relationship. Questioning on my behavior and mens behavior.

what am I doing wrong, is it me?”
“what are guys doing wrong, is it them?”


My mind piling and piling of questions. That I stopped myself and took a deep breath... looking at my surroundings. My disorganized room and thought:

(... what are you so worried about? No one is bossing you around. No one is telling you what to do. You don’t have to adjust your life for someone else.)

Then I thought of the pain that came with a relationship:

-Deflowered to please a person
-criticism of a person lifestyle
-family division cause the partner doesn’t like the parents.
-asking for permission what to do and where to go.
Is it a good quality for a person not being in a relationship just to avoid pain?
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