What does my boyfriend mean by "chase him"?

He is constantly angry and spiteful towards me and telling me he's tired of "chasing me" but when I try harder to be mindful and listen and do more things he likes or whatever, it's not good enough. I feel like I am getting on his last nerve all the time. I don't know what he's talking about with this chasing shit.
He actually is my ex now and broke up with me recently but wants to get back together if I start "chasing him" - I am using this time to get ahold of my severe depression and take my new meds I just started - I don't have time and energy to chase any men at 32 years old. We were together for 5 years and my clock is ticking and time is precious. I am passed the chasing part - I want a fucking family. What is he doing? What should I tell him?
What does my boyfriend mean by "chase him"?
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