No, I'm sorry but I think he has emotionally cheated on me. None of it makes sense that after all this time and history and promises, and trying to get me pregnant without my consent, that suddenly I am supposed to chase him like we just started dating. Yet, the girl he is seeing annoys him because she IS chasing him by asking him how he's doing all the time and trying to link up. He told me he wants to tell her to fuck off cause she's annoying like his mother and he's not willing to put his heart into any relationship cause he's in love with me. He is mental.
Even after 5 years of being together, the man should suddenly make his woman chase him? I don't think that makes sense.
Well... that is a bit odd, yes
Thank you, I am in a tough spot. I don't know what to do now.
Talk it out with him.
I have several times and he broke up with me. He said literally that if I do not "chase him" from now on, we can not be together. We still talk so this will come back up so I am thinking of what to say but I have nothing. I am not going to beg and chase him to make him be with me. He is talking to another woman anyway. We were supposed to have a family and be married but he has no even gotten an apartment - I didn't trust that the relationship was growing. I'm 32 and time is ticking. He's wasting my time.
Yeah. I'd say it might be time to move on.
Dang, yea, you're right. I was afraid that would be the case... thanks for your opinion.
You are welcome
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What should a woman tell her boyfriend if he tells her he wants her to start chasing him? That's what my guy wants me to do for the last year.
You tell him you’re not chasing him ; you’re the prize - run into another mans arms and see how that goes
He says then we shouldn't be together. Fuck him. 5 years wasted. I guess I'll never have that family I always wanted.
Yes f him he’s an asshole
YW this is why I’m single it’s wonderful
I'm taking time out for me now. This is MY time from here on out.
I’ve been single 4 years and don’t want to date anymore
That's cool, dude, good for you :)