Do you think of it’s fair their attitude is kinda like: tough shit if your don’t wanna move in with my mum then there’s no future together?
No, it's not fair. Your feelings about the situation should matter. In a good relationship, what happens is that the two of you discuss why you feel the way you do and then work together to find a resolution that you both can live with. If one person basically says "you have to do it my way or I'm breaking up" that is not good at all.Unless you want to live your life being controlled by your partner, I think that attitude from them is a big red flag.Do you know why your partner is so intent on living there?
He doesn’t want to leave his mum on her own in a big house...
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