Hi, I sent you a message yesterday, you didn't say it was you or not whom I met as an anon. I talked to that person yesterday too. Was it you?
@btbc92is n’t finding solutions a compromise?
No. You have Sanders, when you have morals, principles Etc you don't compromise that. A perfect example is stupidest. I would never be with somebody who has premarital sex, beliefs and having premarital sex, masturbate, watch pornography, Etc. That is not a compromise. It's a standard. If that person don't meet that standard they are automatically disqualified.Finding Solutions has to do with the fact of what it is that is important to the both of you. An example would be spending time together if you are in a position that is unique in a central you may not be able to communicate with the person the way how you liked him, then you must find a way where you can sit a schedule time to sleep with that person. Another words you must be able to be willing to be a little bit flexible in your time management. Now does that mean you give up your job? No. Does that mean you give up your social life with other people? No. But it's a choice. Hence why you are better off being friends than you are dating strangers. But since most people don't want to take that route because they're scared of the so-called friend zone, this is the problem that people end up in. When they compromise so much they not only lower their standards and their value but you're telling the other person that you're too desperate that you just have anybody just to care about you. That not only leaves room for abuse, but bad people to enter your life. And that's exactly what happened. The end up screwing your life up while you miss out on other greater opportunities.
Now if it's about looks, and they say well the person must have blue eyes and they don't have blue eyes I'll never date him. Then that's when you got a problem. Lots of people love blue eyes what what does blue eyes have to do with paying your bills? Get my point?
When you have standards*
Set a schedule time to be with that person* tired of these typos.
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