so im going through a thing with this guy, but I want to compose a really I don't know what's the word I can't even say mature cause I'm afraid? i sound like such a kid. can anyone help me compose a message the right way so it comes off as he doesn't have power over me and my feelings anymore (even though he will always have that over me) and just want to be platonic friends? I really love him but so many things are going on that I just want him to see that I'm not someone he can put to the side and treat like he wants to. I'm tired of feeling the way I feel and I hate it. I hate feeling this way because I've never felt this way. As a girl that's very much into feminism (the type that believes men and women are equal not the ones that say guys should be k word I'm very much on the side that men and women are both smart af) this is so weird and scary for me. So please help?