I'm a husband and father of 2 I have a good job and work hard I make plenty of time for my family and always put my wife and kids needs ahead of my own. I go outta my way to do things to make them happy. I am attentive to my wife and an involved dad. But I feel like my wife just sees me as a co worker. I do little special things for her and surprise her and we have great sex when I initiate it. But I never get much reciprocol from her I feel like I put a lot of effort into our relationship and she doesn't give much I don't need constant gratification or appreciation but once in a while would be nice. Have I just created this dynamic or is she no longer into me?