My boyfriend is in all honesty submissive mostly because I am taller than him and discovered I'm also stronger than him. He has a lot of insecurities, lets me make the decisions, and does not have much of a spine. All of his attempts to be dominant fail as he is quick to back down. Sex is almost the same way as he is usually stiff with my on top or controlling the pace and transitions. I'm not even sure he is aware of his submissiveness. Not a bad boyfriend by any means at all. He showers me with love and treats me like a princess, but I think he has a lot of anxiety about me being the dom in the relationship. Any of you can relate.