My boyfriend thinks I'm being paranoid and insecure, am I?

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My boyfriend has an ex that is relentless in not giving up on her chase and pursuit of him.
He told me she messages him so much saying all the things she will do if he takes her back.
I told him, it doesn't make me feel good or happy or secure knowing that his ex is messaging him and chasing him and wanting him back. But he just looked at me like I was an idiot and told me "I wouldn't be with you if I wanted to be with her" and then changed the subject. I have tried to bring it up a few more times, but each time he just says "you have nothing to worry about" and then changes the subject again.
I still want to have a conversation with him about this, but, he just shuts me down and for some reason that makes me even more insecure.
Should I just ignore what I am feeling and thinking ad have trust in him?
My boyfriend thinks I'm being paranoid and insecure, am I?
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