I love my boyfriend he is age 19 and I am 20 we dated for 4 moths we want to live together. People are so against it , Why do people think you have to get married first before living together and having kids? My boyfriend has says that we can live at his brothers house for 2 years save money work hard and have a huge wedding. My 28 year old cousin is being so judgmental of me she tells me if I can't clean or cook do not bother. Woman can do what they want.