My lover cheated on me for the second time. What should I do?

[Darcia]

You seem to be enjoying her, she now knows she can manipulate you over and over, you should stay and become more naive. I knew a colleague like that she would stay by her man side no matter how much he cheated on her. He cheated on her on her birthday, the day before her university graduation, after he proposed to her, even though her family had no idea what he did, she still ended up marrying him. So if you’re so naive to see right through her actions I suggest you marry her. You don’t need our help, you know exactly how you like it. It’s not love anymore most like lust. She apparently doesn’t love you enough not to cheat on you for a second time. She can still come home back to you willingly. She is playing with your heart because she knows you aren’t the man she’s looking for. You’re probably just there to fulfill one thing for her and even that isn’t fulfilling to her if she’s always cheating on you. When are you going to call it quits? Or are you so naive that you want to continue to try to make it work out between her? You better make up your mind it seems she’s made hers up, next time it’s going to be a fourth, sixth, eighth, and infinite time she using you to cheat. Is that what you want in your life? You should find a girl you can show off not one that smears your name in the streets. Get off your gullible naive horse and ride this cheating to the ground.

[dandiecandie]

You're not naive! You're hurt! You know he cheated on you and you still ask what do I do? Naive means you don't know but that's not the case. You do know he cheated not once but twice. Now the question is why do you allow yourself to be treated like that? Devalued! If you take him back you are devaluing yourself and basically saying to him I don't matter. You matter more than me so you can walk all over me cause I'm garbage. Do you consider yourself garbage? Cause by cheating on you he is saying you're worthless, kinda like garbage. He doesn't love you or value you if he cheats. You need to leave him and give love and self worth to yourself cause girl you're worth it no matter what anybody says.

[TheLawAroundHere]

Leave. Trust me, brother. You cannot rehabilitate a whore. She got away with it the 1st time. The wnd was easier because she now sees how you act when she turns your life upside down and shakes it lime a snow globe.

I've been there, buddy. I've sat on my buddies tailgate drinking beer. Imstead of having my moving help, i decided to wait for her to come home so we could... ahem... talk it out.

That cost me a house full of appliances and furniture. It took me forever to get my shit together.

Its not easy to rid yourself of such a malignant, soul killing, life rotting mass. Keep your head up pal.

[Squirts93]

This is the same advice I give girls because I believe its universal:

Talk with them, tell them you're not angry but you want to be with her and you want her to be with you and you'll do whatever she wants for a chance to make things right.

You should also consider who she's cheating on you with. Is he someone that could actually give her a better future than you? If so, moving on is the right thing to do so you can go back to improving yourself and finding better compatability. If not, communication time affection is the only recipe for success. You really have to consider her feelings.

[Ivory_Princess]

Walk. Block him on social media, change your phone number, change your locks, change your passwords etc
Unless you work together never see or talk to him again, even then keep it work related.

[Anonymous]

you should give your partner unlimited chances until y'all in the worst state of your relationship and even then, fight for the rs. capeesh? ;)

[Anonymous]

Insist on participating next time? If you're gonna put up with it, you might as well get something out of it

[SofLof]

Break up, simple as that. If you persue him you're dumb

[dr_sascha]

Are you by any chance trying to parody a girl that is 24 and keeps inviting people to her question thing?

[Stephrose88]

Yeah not worth your time, energy or emotions. If she didn't learn the first time then she's going to keep doing it. I'm sorry but you can do better.

[RudeBoy718]

Accept her and give her. Tell her you need counseling. So you guys can get better out come. No blame, no judgement. That will only push her away.

[hi_it_is_me123]

If you did not leave her when she was cheating on you the first time, then it is your fault. After all you accept her as a cheater

[bizarregm]

Leave them. I feel bad for you but once a cheater always a cheater. And you deserve so much more. Life’s to short to waste love and time with someone that doesn’t reciprocate the feelings

[llcanon]

You should stop seeing him. 2 times and will most likely do it again and again especially if there are no consequences. why do you stick around. i would have stopped see someone after the first time

[boohooHelpme]

i say... leave and compare them to people who are waaaaay good looking and realise.. WOW i could do WAYYYYY better plus leave before it gets worse. it’s for the better boo

[douride2]

If she cheated on you twice it will most likely happen again. Either learn to put up with it or do like I would & throw their sorry cheating ass on to the curb.

[Anonymous]

Move out and just keep her as a friends with benefits.

[LEADFOOTboi]

buddy... you hsouldnt have let her cheat again... kick her to the curb like the hoe she is...

[Mautito]

Give him a kick in the family jewels and leave him for good!

[Stevecs24]

Sorry hun but you should have left after the first time. Leave and don't look back.

[RingOfFire]

Go get yourself a hooker for a night and forget all about this ho! ;)

[TheFlak38]

why would she remain faithful when she has so many other options?

[haooy]

A naive person never know that he is naive. It's time to move on mate.

[MysteriousDarkness]

You break up with him then walk away and not look back

[dragoblack]

Dump him, he broke your trust, not once, but twice. He will most likely cheat again. It's not worth it to continue with him

[Kuressento]

If that what you into, then good for you. If not, better to leave and start a new relationship after some you time.

[Serenitykayyy]

She is not afraid to lose you given her actions. I would move on. You’ll find someone who wants to be with you and in your life.

[Tamii693]

You should've left the first time but now you sure, your lover is a cheater and will cheat again, leave

[Gurpratap]

Fuck her for the one last time, satisfy yourself, be fully selfish and then throw her in the dustbin. Once upon a time, My girlfriend cheated on me and broke my heart, then i sent the proofs to her dad, i don't want to say what happened next😂😁

[Footballplayz]

Okay let me put it like this. She stabbed you a second time what will you do.

[Juxtapose]

Mind telling us why you didn't just leave her the first time?

[anshul177]

Just kick that bitch from your life by giving a hard kick on her ass

[ReplierM]

Dump that asshole, you deserve MUCH better than her!

[Hangry22]

Leave that unfaithful bitch. If you forgive again, she will repeat it

[kitty71]

Is an easy answer you dont have to think it throughly. Break up with him. Dont find any excuses to justify him. He will do it again.

[Niya2006]

Dump them!!
You'll find someone for you... someone who won't go behind your back and do dumb stuff like that

[Emma_Edw]

You deserve much better. Just leave him. He doesn't deserve you.

[sheikalana]

Dump him! He doesn't deserve to be part of your life. Let him go. He's not good enough for you.

[MissDawn7961]

stopped having a lover ! get legally married and have some children too

[admles]

You dump her ass, like you should have done after the first time.

Cut all contact with her, remove her from your life.

Then, work on yourself, gain some self-respect.

[justshy]

leave her as hard as it maybe now, things will never change. did you ever hear the saying having their cake and eating it too? this person is screwing around but having you as a safety net like "just in case" . you deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Sorry man... either she isn’t attracted to you anymore or she found someone else more attractive than you. Either way, you should find someone else who wants to stay with you.

[pleasestopthis]

If there's a second time, then probably there'll be a third and even fourth. Dump your partner.

[justshy1]

though it maybe hard at first -kick the person to the curb. this person is selfish and that will never change nor the cheating, you deserve better

[Tamera952]

Get a clue, and dump him.
The End.

[MikeTheBartender]

Don't worry the third time it will be different!

[007kingifrit]

you leave and don't look back, any other option makes you a lesser man

[kd_fanatic]

First cheating can be a mistake. But the second one is definitely a choice. You're not important to him so wake up.

[Reaperbot666]

bail out. she's not worth the drama.

[boggboss]

What you should have done the first time

[melinacarline]

please get him out of your life. you deserve better ❤️

[lukeedmonton]

Get rid of your current lover immediately.

[Bourbon777]

Drop that shit like a bad habit.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Simple. You dump the bitch. There is no other option for a man.

[lovelyguy787]

Start expecting it to happen for third time

[mojiikomi]

sleep with another girl in front of her, then leave her...

[Fuentes]

Just leave she won't stop

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You have to walk away now

[jasco]

Glad you admitted you was at fault but uh leave

[youngfungentleman]

Dump him and move on. You deserve better!

[schattenherz]

Quit the Relationship

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

You should stay a simp and do nothing.

[OddBeMe]

I’d have left the first time. Obvi.

[bulletbob555]

Make sure there is no strike 3