2. For woman whether she is married or unmarried, especially if she lost her virginity to that person this has a bigger toll on her. Is a man only desire her body for a while but then goes to masturbation and pornography or see other women that automatically make you feel unworthy and unloved so she start seeking from other men. Especially a friendship.This is why I tell men all the time cherish your friendships. the same way I tell women all the time value the friendship you have with a man. Because that same woman is going to Crave and desire that in a relationship and most men don't provide it because they seeking sexual lovers. And that's not how a woman is built nor is that how a woman desires love. A woman needs a friend and a man first before she figures out if she desires more with him. The reason why a lot of women seem to forgo that is because men have already gave up that route because they know is not going to get them sex. In other words it's selfishness. So now as a child a woman is having his drilled in her head that she has to be sexually satisfying in order to get a man. And if she is not sexually attracted to a man she needs to find somebody she is. And oftentimes is guys that are not good for her. Because she's being taught the wrong message, she's being exposed to the wrong things, if she don't have the right man for a father, then it's bad enough a healthy male figure is not around. If a father or male figure is abusive, especially to her mother and not just her, then she's going subconsciously seek out abusive men for partners. AKA they tend to sleep with and married those who are just like their fathers.
Men have a similar problem. Men tend to seek women who are just like their mothers. If his mother was not a good woman that he's going to also seek a woman who was not good. That is subconsciously. Unless he has been exposed to bad friends or peers who influenced him into whoredoms. His exposure starts with pornography or sexually explicit material. If there was no such thing around, then you have situations where God forbid he was raped, he seen sexual violence towards a parent (usually his mother), or if his mother/father brings different sex partners into his presence. That of course it happens to women as well. What I am saying about this is that exposure to toxic environments need two people to assume these kind of behaviors are normal. And it begins to shape how they perceive the world.The next issue is maybe because it's in their nature or genetics. I keep telling people all the time. Everything you do becomes genetically imprinted into your genes and it passes down onto your offspring. So if you decided to sleep around with 20-plus people before 18. What do you think is going to happen for your son or daughter? They may do worse than 20 + people they may do a hundred. That is detrimental to not only to them but Society. Because who in their right mind is going to want to marry somebody who doesn't have sexual morals unless they themselves lack sexual morals?
The reason why people cheat in summary, is this:1. Lack of morals, principals standard's, etc. If they was taught this, then they forsaken it for the things of the world as the Bible says. That's personal choice. So not only do they suffer they make other people suffer.2. If they were exposed to this at a very young age, mostly through their own environments which tends to be at no fault of their own. Or even the media as many of us was exposed to such things through movies, TV shows, etcetera, we begin to emulate and imitate what we see because we start to perceive its normal. And it's not normal.3. If a person feels wrong because they've been cheated on, their reaction is that a Revenge so they begin to cheat on the person who was the cheater first. And they become the very person that they did not want to become. Some stop. Others just continue to do so because that's how much it impacted them and changed their brain. 4. Pure selfishness. They're inhuman. They lack morals. They lack empathy. They simply don't care. This may be a sign of mental illness or psychological issue. 5. In relation to number four, they may have addictions that they haven't got healed of.6. Assumptions/ self-fulfilling prophecy.7. And as what the Bible says. If you sexually abuse and neglect your spouse, that will lead to a person to God forbid fornicate or commit adultery in the marriage.
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