Guys. Would you consider this if your wife asked you to do it?

[CallMeDave]

I see a lot of risk in a situation like that. For one thing, I don't think it would be wise for the sister to get pregnant in order to try to heal her emotional wounds. A child is a lot of work and a major long term commitment and being a single parent is very difficult, so I don't think it's a good idea to decide to have a child for short term emotional healing or to make a decision like that at a time of emotional distress. That's a decision that should be made when you're thinking clearly.

The other big risk I see is that, regardless of what's on the birth certificate, if I was the guy I would be worried about what could happen in the future regarding responsibility for the child. Somewhere down the road, the sister could be in financial difficulty and be desperate for money and want the guy to help financially support the child. Or the guy and his wife could get divorced and the wife could push the sister to request child support from him Or the sister could get married and the guy she marries could push her to request child support. I'm not a lawyer, but it seems to me that it would be pretty easy to prove that the father's name on the birth certificate is wrong simply by comparing that guy's death date with the child's birth date. A difference of 10 months or more would look very suspicious. A paternity test could prove who the actual biological father is and then, depending on local laws, it seems possible that the guy could end up being forced to pay child support. Maybe it doesn't seem now that the sister would ever do something like that, but people and circumstances change over time and you never really know what could happen.

For those reasons, it seems like a bad idea to me.

[Ripper_E]

No. I would not impregnate a woman so she can hold on to her life. She needs to be in a right state of mind. Second, if it's my wife's sister, artificial insemination would do just fine. No need for me to have sex with her until she eventually gets pregnant.
Third, even if I did do that, I would not be okay with the step father not knowing the truth and her late husband being listed as the father because it's not true. The man she married has every right to know who the father is if the knowledge is ready and available. He should not be lied to. The child is mine, therefore should be listed as such.

[Secret6620]

I wouldn't. Nope. Not a chance.

It says you invited me. You may need to adjust your settings and uncheck the invite all button if you didn't mean to send the invite. But if you did I appreciate it! Great question!

[Agape93]

Technically I don’t qualify, but I wouldn’t have an issue with a guy in dating doing this. If everyone’s ok with it, go for it.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I would refuse and possibly consider a divorce.

[MysteriousDarkness]

That is a hard no. I would want to raise the child together and be not only the biological father but also legal parent that raises the child whose name would be on the birth certificate. I would not want visitation rights, no every other weekend or every other week. No coparenting. We would raise the child together. That means we would have to live together. In this situation I would be married to the babies mother's sister. Not raising the child together each day or ruining my marriage would not be options for me.
Getting pregnant just because you are griefing the lose of your husband and having a miscarriage so the grieving stops is not good. Its like getting a new pet a week after your pet dies so you stop grieving. You would not be emotionally ready.

[Citizenkirk]

I've seen that senario played out in dozens of porno flicks, and even the director and cast of those sex films think it's pretty sick, twisted s***. Compared to those guys, I'm a pretty straight laced kind of guy, so I'm going to have to save a big NO f****** WAY!!! A box of Russell Stover's chocolates might be a plan, though.

[Liam_Hayden]

Not a chance. For one, a child is not a tool to use to fix her life. For another, they say they would be fine with it, but that could change and you'll probably end up supporting one divorced wife and the child with the sister. The potential for disaster is too great.

[DreamCatchcer]

A guy can be a sperm donor with out having sex with the woman. It would entail doctor fees

I guess if his wife is okay with her sister giving birth to her husbands baby, then go for it.

It would probably take more than one sexual encounter to get her pregnant.

[magiusX26]

possibly. would still need to find her attractive. would have to be damn sure my wife and i were secure enough to not have this severely impact us. even then i can't say for sure.

[Pete671]

No it would be bad mentally for the widow, I'd do anything I could to help her deal with her grief though, invite her to stay with us for as long as she wants etc,,,

[0112358]

It used to be a real life situation. That’s what the story of Onan was about.

[DavidHart]

Those who are in any religion might or might not do it.
But those who are religious will never do it since it's immoral to do that.

[Unit1]

No thank you.

[pigoat]

Yeah question was done once i read sperm bank

Adoption even

Lmao

[Avicenna]

No, bad idea. She should find a new partner or a sperm donor.

[CoolGuyJoe]

No. The best thing for her to do is find a new man to spend her life with as she did with her first husband.

[joeldalton]

Very slim chance that doesn't blow up in your face.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d leave him if he did that. She better go find a diff man to get a cup of cum from

[littleE]

I would possibly do this as i live in a polyamorous marriage and my wife has a boyfriend. So if there was attachment there is room to navigate this and help someone you love.

[Kelly6]

I once asked this kind of question from hubby, not for sister but for my best friend

[ItsTheNephilim]

Nope. Sounds like a horrible idea.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but I would try to convince my wife that the three of us should become a throuple. For the sake of my child.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t play this evil games