Don't know why didn't see this answer your now, but great answer 👍👍💜🙂
Thank you, ladies. When rereading this, I am struck again by the wish that there was an edit feature here on GAG. This reads like a first draft, typos and all.Thanks for the MHO, bbb. :-)
Well deserved 🙂
I forgot to add that many of the images aren't even realistic. They are shot with perfect lighting, certain poses, filtered and Photoshopped. People get unrealistic impressions of what real people look like.
I agree 💯💯 here!!!
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I respect your honesty... And I get you're not trying to be sexist.. you're trying to protect Daddy's girls
With the people that lack respect, I agree..Some of the people, men included, I interact with the most on here are the ones that while we may not always agree, we always keep it respectful and they don't just discount everything I say or disagree just because I'm a female, like others do...
So all women are incompetent at their jobs, and all men are competent? I beg to differ
Maybe people shouldn't be trying to have power or Control over other people tho..
What is crazy about a guy who was raised (probably) only knowing online dating/socializing in thinking he can’t get laid if it happens that zero females he interacts with are open to that? Women have become very picky and think they deserve the upper 3% of men.I think the incel guys are misguided to think they’re missing out & they’re valuing the wrong thing BUT I totally see where they’re coming from
I would agree
Very well said and very true
Very nicely said. And I agree 💯
I more meant the disrespect between genders, and the double standards... Not just in personal relationships...
I think my point still stands.A man who vehemently paints women in broad strokes as not respecting him enough is often just an asshole with unreasonable expectations.Likewise, a woman who routinely paints men as disrespectful in broad generalizations likewise is often an asshole who has unreasonable expectations.But more importantly, and more impactfully, is the weird double standard at work. Especially in the legal system. Men are assumed to be violent aggressors, attackers, poor fathers, etc. And in some cases, they are. But many systems see women as angelic figures, helpless victims, and the right person for a child to end up with during divorce.Even when there is clear proof that the woman is the "bad guy", or that the man is the victim.Just look at the Depp and Heard situation. Nevermind the many tragic stories I'm sure are rife on here - and that I've seen myself a few times in my personal life - where an abusive mother winds up with custody of the child because "clearly a child needs their mother more".
Great answer 💜👍🙂
Thank you <3 :)
Forget about the respect when there are double standards.
Both go hand in hand...
Right! I agree and same... The lack of respect people have these days is just appalling
It is appalling. I believe it has to do with the the increase in divorce rates and kids growing up in home where either a single parent works constantly or both parents are gone working full time jobs. Kids at home with no one to teach them.
Could be... But I think technology/social media plays a big part in that as well
Absolutely! Technology and social media most certainly play huge roles in current childhood behavior..
And adult behavior as well it seems
If you cheat, it's your fault. If she cheats, you drove her to it, and it's your fault.
I also know that some double standards have always been around, but some of them are unnecessary.
@UncleJessieRabbit I was just being cheeky, but honestly double standards can't exist without lack or respect. If she respected me, there couldn't be any double standards by my reckoning.
Umm more the double standards men can be choosy about who they prefer but women can't.. And vice versaMen can say they like they're women taller but if a women says it and vice versaSome men think they can have multiple partners but don't want a female partner who had the same...It's not about people having same physical attributes duh you should of got I meant don't do things and think it's ok just because you're a man or woman yet have an issue with someone else doing the same... And I care why about if you care what I think...🤷🏼♀️ My relationship lasted 20 years, how long did yours last, hmm🤔And you do realize noone is asking you to read or respond to my posts, right?
Not sure what you mean? Im talking about ALL double standards. Every one. Thats the basis for sexual attraction. Not just physical, includes behavior and personality and life choices etc.
That's not what you mentioned:The whole point of being straight is to find someone who is not the same as you or else you would be gay. Just because i work out and am a big muscled man doesn't mean i want a big giant strong woman. And most girls cry a lot but most also dont want a man who cries just as much as them.When I mean more double standards with Behavior and actions...And the question was about the gender issues of today
So its ok for a girl to not want a man who cries as much as her but its not ok for a man to not want a woman who sleeps around as much as him?
First not all women cry all the time, second, not all women have an issue if a man cries... And third, did you really compare crying to the double standards that men can sleep around but women shouldn't... How bout women don't want man whores anymore than men want whoresBut go ahead, keep proving my point about people with their BS double standards 🤷🏼♀️😂
Why are you so upset? Don't date man whores. Very simple. 😁 but girls always say this but then want to date man whores.
How am I upset? Or is that another double standard? You can type paragraphs but if I disagree or refute I'm upset? Lololol But you're disagreeing with me so why are you so upset 😂😂🤣
Well i just lay it out in a logical fashion. If women dont want man whores and they dont believe in double standards then they aren't sluts and therefore no problems right? The only girls who have problems are sluts who want man whores. So not really a problem right? Because as you say women dont want man whores. 😁
I think expectations are what kills dating for sure, but I personally think the double standards and lack of respect for the opposite gender more guilty for gender bias and divide
I think the double standards may be the same as expectations because they expect one to act a certain way and not the other
Children need to be raised not women..Wives should be their husbands partner not their property...We disagree on this topic..Nobody should be treated like someone else's property...
By raise i mean that he provides for her and takes care of her... etcI like the word property, why is it a shame if she's my property by love? 😌In the end she's going to be mine, property or not, the muffin in your forehead is mine too miss brains muffins 😈
So then is he not her property as well, and setting you think it's okay for a man to smack his wife is it okay for her to smack him?See, double standards 🤷🏼♀️
Yeah he's her property too, why would he smack, have you saw someone smacking his lovely housewife who makes him comfortable, happy, give him everything he wants, makes him delicious meals and muffins, keeping the house tidy and clean 😄No smacks, the only smack that she will get is while the man of the house is at home and the sweet wife is doing the dishes, he passes by in the kitchen to have a muffin and smack his wife's butt so it shakes like a jello 🤣🤣 HAHA!The man will tell his wife i will sexually harass you and assault you, what are you going to do about it? The wife will answer: nothing babe, your my husband and i love my harasser and assaulter 😂😂At this point the man will make his wife drop the dishes from her hands in the sink and take her to the bedroom where he will eat her alive and ehen he finishes, he will eat the muffin as a reward for his crime 😅😅
If all you see women as is pussy I'm sure they will without someone like that
I used to see a lot more in female but that's old coding and you can be loyal, caring and do everything for her... still nice guys always fail while due to some odd reason female like it when you treat them like shit.I have literally seen my friends behaviour change and got a lot more pussy/relationship after changing my pattern... I am 23 and marriage/kids don't came in to equation till I am 35+ so I am enjoying the life !
Double standards are always at least a little bit childish because we can't have double standards across people who aren't equal. And men and women are not the same. This is like watching a brother and sister fight over a toy, except it's adults doing this shit.
Well I personally don't see it as much IRL but I definitely see it on here with the way some men and women attack the opposite gender a lot of times with no provocation
Well said, one definitely leads to the other
You are being sarcastic I hope lolol
No! This time I'm not!
And women must be hot with boobs and ass or they're a nobody to men...Inner beauty Means just see much to men, don't men say "they're more visual"?You're only calling out like only men deal with double standards and that's just not true...And how about men that can have hundreds of sexual partners but if a woman had anywhere near that, she'd be a slut or undatable or not marriage material...Men can go topless and not be fatshamed but a woman shouldn't wear a two piece if she fat...The double standards happen cuz some people have too much disrespect for the opposite sex
Agree my wife loves the double standards and always getting her way 😄
That could certainly be true
I agree lack of respect is very rampant these days in so many different aspects... People don't respect differences, people don't respect their elders, people don't respect the opposite sex...
That's very true!
Which one tho? Or both? 🤔
Oh. Both.There is lack of respect and double standards come from it.
I would agree, that should of been an option, but then some people might say too long of a question lolol
In general a lack of respect in most cases is about as bad as it can get.
True, but I do get irritated by double standards as well
Don't get me started on that one now.
Lolol right... Our thread would become a book not a mytake, lololol I see so much double standards and hypocrisy makes my head spin
I agree here 💯👍
Well said, Sir 👏👏
Awwwww - - - - you don't have to call me Sir, Ma'am.
I would agree with that
I kinda can see it being both, which should a been an option
Really? How so?
Well if you're guilty of double standards you're not really doing much respect right?The person that cheats, test thinks their partner shouldn't...The people that lie, then get upset if someone were to lie to them... Etc etc...
Yes, that's true. And in that case, double standards become a means of disrespect. Like you said. However, I didn't realize you met these kind of double standards. I thought you meant the kind like where men are applauded for sleeping around and women are considered to be sluts. Which is a whole different discussion
That applies as well and that's also a sign of disrespect isn't it?
That particular example?
Yes, doesn't it?
No, I don't think so. And this is a controversial opinion. But it seems rational to me.If the different way in which we respond to men and women having sex with lots of people is purely culturally based, then it would be a double standard. But if it's biologically based, off of an inherent difference that is built into men and women naturally, it's just following our programming. And I believe it's the latter.An evolutionary biology, when you look at the reproductive function of men and women they are successful when they have the most children. But for men having the most children means getting multiple women pregnant at the same time. So during the vast majority of human history, the man is considered a biological success when many women choose him and he can pass on his genes to multiple genetic lines. But for a woman, because she needs to raise the child with much more involvement in the man does, she needs to dedicate her resources and time to the raising of the child and she needs a man to dedicate his resources in time to caring for her. That's how she's successful in passing on her genes. That's how her children survive.So for him to sleep around with many women is considered a reproductive success story. But for her to sleep around with many men means she doesn't have anyone focused on keeping her safe and provided for, and it means she isn't focusing on rearing her children. So in that case she would be a failure.With this paradigm, it seems clear to me why, all over the world, men and women both naturally default with a much harsher judgment on women who sleep around than we do on men.
Men are not sleeping around these days to have more children, cuz if that's the case why the get an abortion or my wallet my choice that is so prevalent these days?
No, they certainly are not doing that consciously. But the deep seated biological drives are there, as are our instinctive judgments of them
And some men respect women? Some do but some don't... Not all women disrespect men, men on here just say it... And isn't respect a two way street.. How can women respect men who don't respect them?
I think men consider women first before they decide to respect them or not. Women don't even consider men, so respect is not possible, and even disrespect is not really personal, just general. Women just generally disrespect all men, but they don't even know who they're disrespecting, or keep track of how many.It's actually impossible to have a man and woman to have a relationship with each other. They are both having a relationship with their own imaginary version of their partner. Like a tulpa living in a real human being's body. That's all relationships are. Two people whose imaginary friends are superimposed over each other. The two actual people involved have literally never even met.
It definitely can be
I agree there
Agree, but shouldn't automatically disrespect someone based off their gender
I do agree...