Deeper meaning gives more understanding for some and less for others... thanks for insight.
You are really a Master. Your reasoning is beautiful. I wonder how beautiful you might be in person.
From appearance is what I meant by in person.
What if the close friend of the opposite sex is someone you've known your entire life? My oldest friend is female, and I've known her since I was 5 years old. My ex also had a best friend who was male.I think what makes a difference is whether you would do the things you do with your opposite sex friend with friends of the same sex.
What if you do body manipulations while thinking about your partner?
@Jwags Unless you are away from your partner, most people that do those lewd actions do not think of their partner. I do not believe one single second that those in a relation manipulate their body thinking of their partner. They need a different incentive.
Lmao fuck #1. You could give me sex twice a day every day and ide still watch porn. Sometimes my hands less effort then you being a dead fish. Women can’t get me off without my involvement and if I just want it done then I gotta do my own shit.
@VanillaSalt haha, don't you think you are bragging just a little? I don't need convincing but your statement is hilarious :-)
Um, on what planet is masturbation an act of infidelity? They can't bc they might think of someone other than you? What are you the thought police?
@lanadelrey25 no I agree to a degree. Porn is bad for men in high amounts. It causes marital issues. But you can’t say no to porn altogether unless your getting everything you need. Personally marriage is a bad thing for men. Fidelity, marriage, monogamy... these only benefit women for the most part.
@VanillaSalt I was talking to sueshe lol, masturbation isn't cheating. Too much porn is bad, yes, but touching yourself (hence YOURSELF) isn't cheating lmao
@sueshe I wish it was funny. I really have issues with sex and my women. Either I’m too difficult or they suck lmao. Not much of a pool though 4 ladies within like 10 years of relationships. Only 1 outside. Often my sex is initiated by me 99% of the time and end with me finishing later like 70-80%... It’s just easier to skip to the end lmao. I put too much effort into my partner and not enough thought into myself and all partners are selfish lovers...
@lanadelrey25 Perhaps that you have heard of "emotional cheating".Emotional cheating is just as bad as the actual physical cheating since you are fully aware that you do indeed cheat on your partner by doing something that he/she would disapprove. Yet, you are still doing it in full knowledge of that fact.That is emotional cheating because, having a partner and still thinking of other people while manipulating yourself is indeed to be unfaithful, hence cheating.
And except you are talking about emotional cheating. We're still talking about porn here but if you really consider porn emotional cheating does he even know that girl? You know, girls still tend to watch rom coms or whatever romantic since they like and they romanticize that guy but do we considered as emotional cheating where you're still keep your set of dildos around? This is exactly why we don't get insecure women who just wants to interpret things their way.
If my partner is not in the mood for sex, then I will masturbate to whatever the fuck I want to. Same goes for her. If I don't feel like having sex, then she can do whatever she wants to give her satisfaction. As long as there isn't another person in the room, then no one is getting hurt.
@AD240pCharlie Perhaps that you did not read my reply correctly.My very first point was1. watching pornographic content while in a relation and without the knowledge, approval and endorsement of the partnerSince both of you practice those lewd activities independently of each other, I presume that you have the consent of your partner and vice versa.Thus your argument is void and null.
I disagree sue. I think it’s natural for a man to want many women but choosing not to allow this to interfere is the monogamy he agrees to in marriage. Cheating to me is any action that negatively effects the true relationship based off something intimate and personal... including sharing secrets.
I meant more that too much porn interferes with a mans ability to put out effectively and negatively effects what he wants, how he feels, and how well he performs in the relationship sometimes on multiple levels.
Because anything can be considered cheating if you're just really insecure. You can assume he's cheating for just going out without you wanting some fresh air. The thing really is guys have already been watching porn before they even met their mate. So yeah you can assume he's watching porn even if he isn't just to consider him a cheater because you feel uncomfortable everytime.
@VanillaSalt Just because it is "natural" does not mean that it is correct.Furthermore, males have decided that it is natural because it suits their purpose.
And yes you can also give yours and i can also give mine. That just means it's a both yes or no situation but the fact objectively speaking remains no other girls is involved. The fact that nobody has met those pornstars. By the way the rest of what i said still stands. Because if everybody has the rights to fantasize whoever they want then everybody is basically a cheater if that's the case. Only you however cannot read anyone's minds
But assuming anyways, it is in fact anyone who assumes the worst in someone are just insecure.
And by the way this is the first result that came out of google. globalnews.ca/news/4844943/cheating-online/amp/ after all i am not posting this because google said so. I go by the word logic and objectiveness not by feelings.
@Aiko_E_Lara No, somebody that assumes the worst in people is a person that knows how people act and behave and acts accordingly...
I meant anyone who always assumes the worse. Let's see, if you really assume the worst in people every time, you might as well just live alone nobody's forcing you to be in a society filled with people who you cannot trust. And if you have trust issues that is not our fault.
Also that just means you don't know how to deal with it accordingly
There are still other things i said there that stands by the way. You know i can also assume you have a set of dildo while you're in a relationship and you are fantasizing anyone. So what will be your excuse?
@Aiko_E_Lara Fortunately, I am not a slave of libido and don't have the need to humiliate myself by inserting objects into my body, in a place they have nothing to do.I believe that you are taking your fantasies for a reality. There are people that are in control of their bodies and don't have to resort to uselessly manipulate them to induce a few pathetic and useless convulsions.
And this is exactly why anyone can also lie exactly like you do. What would be the point dating someone who is "not insecure but ms. Know how people act"So you are basic you like a vegan of fantasizing. Also that is still a right. Whoever said we shouldn't control or self? This isn't even rape and you're already talking about controlling our selves. Sure it can be unhealthy but that is a different topic and has nothing to do with cheating. So you are still considering it as cheating because of how you feel it is. If not always the case then why waste time on you?
I'm pretty sure there are a lot of girls who do the same and who understands but the relationship is still healthy anyways so you can speak for yourself tho if your boyfriend is masturbating at another girl which ruined your relationship. Because that's not always the case for everyone. Because i can also say even if none of them are watching porn, breakup still happens.
Also you're acting like that is the only unhealthy thing people in relationship do. If that is the case why don't you get off the internet because that is unhealthy? Why don't you get of G@G? It is unhealthy because i am only looking at its side effects like you do. So yes you're kind of like showing your one sidedness in this situation. Also even if you don't keep any dildos you can still finger yourself in the tub. Say no all you want but anyone else can assume you do. But even if you actually do we don't care. Good luck trying to find a guy who doesn't watch porn tho. Sure you will know because you would spy on him 24/7 right?
Also even if he doesn't watch porn he can fantasize about people he already know. But of course who wants to admit that when people like you exist? That would basically mean everybody or emotional cheaters. Or you might as well just date on asexual and aromantic guy or a guy who doesn't have balls.
@Aiko_E_Lara I am not looking into being in a relation because to me, that is not important in life. I have other priorities that take up my time and that are way more challenging, interesting and satisfying than to have a guy that will consume porn, manipulate his penis to induce those pathetic spasms and muscular contractions.If I was into dating, then it would be a person that has other priorities in life than sex and pornography like a great percentage of guys do. This is so pathetic!
Then speak for yourself. We are not even forcing you to however most of your statement is false because you're not even looking for a relationship yourself so how would you even know? Yes people can watch porn without being enslaved by it but that is the only thing that comes to your mind. like what i'm still trying to say to you why don't you get off the internet because it's unhealthy? why don't you get off G@G because it's a healthy? You still don't realize how you sound. Here is a golden rule for everyone too much of everything is not health and that includes porn to but you're only talking about porn in this situation. So you are just assuming just because you watch porn, all he want is sex. Your future "good boyfriend" will prove you wrong. You can find many good guys who still watch porn tho. Like what i said would you spy on him 24/7?
@sueshe women are in control of their bodies. Men have no say to access. Men are unfaithful if we go outside. If we watch porn we’re still unfaithful...Let me be frank. In this situation... fuck you. Not only am I gonna watch porn but ima fuck your sister record it and email it to you. If you want a man to be faithful and cut all porn then you better put out. Idc what your priority is if you don’t meet my needs I won’t waste my time on you and your rules.
So let's say he actually does watch porn but he isn't really someone who is a rapist or an out-of-control horny guy? Or a fuccboi like no history of cheating at all? All that matters to you because he watch porn? Why don't you just date some bad guy gangster who doesn't watch porn because he couldn't afford any? Sure you would prefer him right?
If you're just going to calm empathetic because majority of us actually watches porn, how about majority of women owning sex toys? Do you not considered as pathetic because what excuses do you give? We don't assume they are sluts. We're just not like you.
Also if you can eat fast food without being enslaved by it then why is it impossible for men to watch porn without being enslaved by it?
Also in short you just as shown that every guy who watch porn cannot be that person you are looking for.
*You just assume that every guy who watches porn cannot be that person you are looking for.
@VanillaSalt oh, I finally see your real personality as you phrase it in your G@G bio"... I like to be funny because everyone loves a good laugh..."Yet your last remark is just the opposite of what you preach. When you say that you "spread to the other people", do you actually mean that you impose onto other people?And when you state that you are going to have sex with my sister, I understand that you will rape her and therefore, my opinion is made about you, your morale, your IQ and your integrity. How many children and other adults have you already abused with your perverted comments?
@sueshe actually “you” is who ever I’m in a relationship with. Also who needs to rape. It’s offensive you women think you control the rules and time and everything else in regards to sex and then think you can tell us no porn... it don’t work like that sweetheart.
can we all agree that @sueshe just doesn’t get it, and is seriously sensitive when it comes to people touching their own bodies?
@lanadelrey25 Can we all agree that you guys are all sex freaks that prioritize pornography over reality of life?
@lanadelrey25 To what? To porn like most sex freaks do!!!
@lanadelrey25 okay Mr. Delrey, if you say so :-)
So you resort to being petty by jacking up my name? Ok, very mature
@lanadelrey25 Kiddo, you should not even be on this post.This an adult thread that children should not participate.
Couldn't agree more. Very intelligent for your age. Kudos. 2 thumbs up.
And you see? You always come up to that conclusion just because anyone watches porn. So you're basically do not care what attitude that person have but what matters more is if he actually watches porn. Like what you were saying before you are looking for a perfect husband who "doesn't watch porn" oh sure you wouldn't know. But i can still tell you he can watch without you knowing but that doesn't change who he really is and you know he can be doing it way before you met him. So what are you going to do are you going to spy on him 24/7 just to make sure?
She means not all men are womanizer who if they don't get their way they call her a slut. Try to understand not all women are whores. @SueShe great take. Liked reading it.
That basicly also means not all men who watches porn are womanizers. And whoever said all women are whores?
@SueShe before you call @lanadelrey25 a kid, do you even know how old she really is? But let's see what if she really is a kid? She knows we better than you and you should know better. Also like what i said to you before, you just having trust issues with people because you always assume the worst in people, you should not participate in our society.
@Aiko_E_Lara Well if this lady (?) gave the wrong age, then she lied. As simple as that...
It's on her bio that her age was mistake. But still why are you focusing on that instead of the main topic? You think you sound as grown up as you think?
*was. And she made a bio mytake. But still tho, what if she really is a kid? A kid would know better than you if that's the case
@Aiko_E_Lara It seems that you cannot get over this issue, can you?
@Aiko_E_Lara furthermore, her bio is private and therefore, you cannot see her bio. Therefore, a lot of assumptions start to make really sense...
Im not like you who dodge things. I just proved you wrong many replies ago and you've been making porn a very big issue. After all I don't have issues with people who don't watch porn nor masturbates but I have moron issues.
Also anyone can unfollow her after reading her bio or mytake. It's simple. You're the only one having issue here. It's kinda like you always have issue but if you don't, you try to make it an issue.
So if you think im 23. what about if I say im actually 5? Does that automatically invalidate what I said?
@Aiko_E_Lara Let's leave it at this. I like to talk to adults and not to people that fake their age, gender and a number of other things.Was nice talking to you. Have a great week-end ahead of you.
Or you can just eat your words like what adults do. Dismissing argument with ad hominems (assuming things) which is a fallacy are basically excuses to be just comfortable with their own ignorance just like you appealing to age. You kinda remind me of a 10 year old big sister saying "im 10 and you're 8 so i should be in charge" Realize how you sound?So here's the conclusion for you. You're just losing credibility and that's that. Again who forced you to argue? Who forced you to be in society if all you have are issues with them? That's no one's fault and you should be old enough to realize that.
And if i have to be honest, im really 23. There for you're invalid. *shrugs* easy or me to say
Dude what do you want from the girl. Move on and be a man for God sakes. You argue like you're 10 now.
@RudeBoy718 Oh here we have someone just white knighting hoping to get laid. You don't wanna see both sides of the argument, you just wanna get laid.
You're only person with low self-esteem here seems like all you wanna do is get laid and don't know how to talk to woman. Unfortunately am not a dating coach. But if I was I wouldn't even registered you in my class. You're too immature.
@RudeBoy718 You can't even elaborate how I get low self esteem but you just rather wanna say so. I just explained to you, you didn't even see both side of the argument but just because you agreed with her in the first place, it just made you bias. Also I thought SueShe said it's ok to assume the worst in people. I'm just arguing at her level at this point. All ad hominems which is a logical fallacy. See how the logic gets backfired?
@RudeBoy718 Nice try blocking me tho. It doesn't work here.
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Some relationships can handle it if it happens one time. They can manage to work through it and come out the other end. Others can't.
I'm scared to tell my partner that the reason I deleted my search history is because I didn't want anyone to know that I needed to google how to spell omelette. Is that cheating?
So spending time with by best friends who happen to be girls, does counts as cheating? Its your own fault if you dont want to go to events I want, so if I have chance I will invite my friends. I had girl who didn't want to go riding in motorcycle event with about 4k other riders. Took friend of mine for tail. Great event, left her few day later, due to constant bitching and accusations no regrets. And no we are just friend, who happen to have a lot similar hobbies.
@__inkRat Lol I'm so possessive
Would it imply doing hobbies your not happy with? Like motorcycle racing, skydiving and so on. Oodly most girls have a lot problems with such activities.
@__inkRat No that's independence lol. Just things that involve me.
Also when they are meeting up with another girl but lying to you on who they are meeting up with not to mention sexual photos
Alexandrubaschet08 - learn how to spell ! it is - with - not - whit - ! it is not - whidout - it is - without - but then that is proper English spelling of which the U. K. knows little about ! thanks
@MissDawn7961 I'm not brithis dud so i don't give a SH**t.People say thanks that at last i know some English comparing whit USA who don't know even wher is theyr country on the map _|_
That's the most important thing. The one thing that most young people don't understand: Talk about it! Make sure that you're both on the same page about what's ok and what's not, from the very beginning.
Your wife having oral or anal sex with another guy wouldn't be cheating?
@OlderAndWiserNot so much.There is no wife anyway.
It's a good rule
Thats an extremely slippery slope.