Can you not read? I very clearly stated no we aren’t!!! What is it with you people?
Thank you. I’m fine. There are men on gag that suggested it was okay to hit your partner and not in a sexual way but to inflict harm.
Not talking about kinky play either.
No and thank you for asking. However, I have noticed some men on here trying to rationalize hitting their girlfriend or wife to inflict pain. They think it is okay because they are men and their wife is weaker than they are.
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Please read what I said.
I did but sometimes even when its not playfully or sexual. I have had girlfriends smack me upside my head of saying or doing something stupid. but I knew they didn't mean to harm me long term so I let it slide. however it there was an intent to do damage to me then I have every right to defend myself.
I don’t think there is anything 🤣 about hitting women. If you need more explanation, I’d suggest you read through my replies to other people.
And no the people I’m talking about were not talking about sex play.
I didn’t say anything about consensual hitting.
I don’t think it’s ever right to hurt your partner. Plus, many people hide behind saying it was consensual when in fact it wasn’t at all.
You also never clarified that it was not consensual that’s why I specified. I agree that without consent no one should be hurt in their relationship but by making a blanket statement that it is never ok regardless of consent ostracizes members of the bdsm and kink communities and I don’t believe that is right either
Understand that many people in that community hide behind consent too. They will say it is consensual and it isn’t. Part of the point of being into BDSM, is because the person hitting the other likes to see them hurt. Many of them like the idea of forcing people into harm’s way. It also opens people up for criminal charges and possible prison time.
Yes when done without consent or outside of a quality trusting relationship. I understand there are risks and where there are risks there unfortunately will always be those who abuse but I do think we need to hold space for those who are in those communities who do so willingly and it is a healthy aspect to their relationship.
It isn’t healthy to want to hurt people.
No. Please read my question.
See my first response
I did. No it doesn’t have to do with doggy style.
If you hit your partner, you should be in prison. One of these days, you’re going to hit the wrong woman and end up there. Eventually your partner will tire of being abused and will leave.
Me hit, no I like to tease and make her hit me 🤣