I only cried in front of a woman once & that was a mistake. I was young, dumb and not nearly as in tune with my masculinity as I am now.
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Somewhat, since I can't rage IRL with my fiancée I'm taking it out on people here. Better on random strangers than loved ones...
But no rage is the best. I've used the council of certain people on here to help me work things out, but the important thing is that the issue is eventually resolved. I recall a good deal of disturbing posts about a year ago.Is this the same fiancee? Are you genuinely happy?
She is.I'm not happy. I silently seethe and resent her, my mother, my sister, basically everyone who's dealing with me.
Then you're wrong. She'll be miserable as well if you marry her and no matter what she did to you using your life to be a detriment to hers is wrong. Live for something better.Hatred is a bit poisonous in my experience, I just couldn't possibly know how much better it feels to have it gone until I myself let go of it. You can forgive without excusing. DM me anytime Jean. I know you said that internet strangers don't really care but I kind of have to. I try to care about everybody and I don't always succeed. Even if you care about everyone you can't possibly help them all, so I take the opportunities I have. This is me reaching out. Should you seek council, or a place to vent, you can find one with me.
I don't want to marry her, that is her fantasy. I just wish she'd let me wither in peace.
This is so sad
@Dchrls78104 It's reality. There's a reason why all of your ancestors didn't act like women: because nobody actually cares about your feelings. Women get things out of showing all that emotion. Sometimes her emotions are real. Sometimes faked.