What if i left after found out about it for example, wouldn't it the wrong way to do it then?
I wouldn't think so. Be your self. If your being surpressed then why would you continue with that. Let's say the other person wanted to tie your up and choke you sexually when you were having sex would you be ok with that?(apologies for the bluntness) But told outside people that you were ok with it even though you were scared because if was way outside your comfort zone.
Understand, and the numbers game is just not how i like it either
I agree with you. People should be themselves but socially judgements usually overcome us being ourselves. (Only exception are like rape, murder, pedophiles and such)
But for me or other people who face the same situations to found out about it later from other person its bullshit
Yeah it sucks and I had that problem once when my brother started dating a girl and wouldn't tell anyone I had to find out later when he blamed me for not giving them space but I didn't know they were dating and would have given him space if I knew
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Well for me to know that later, it sucks
Is 2 months of talking not enough?