What is the thing that scare you the most in a relationship?

Question

What is the scariest thing in a relationship according to you? Why?
Have you ever been in a relationship where you weren't you at your 100%?

Answer 1

Chikky | 203 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Influencer

Being ignored I hate it, makes me feel so irrelevant

Answer 2

meeso13

Xper 4

There was a knock at the door some scraggly looking dude asked for someone named John I said no one here by that name I shut the door my wife was sitting in the chair and she looked afraid I asked her did that scare you? She didn't answer me I asked again I said hell no you're not going to be afraid in your own home so put my shoes on and went to look for this motherfuckerI didn't find him when I got back my wife said to me you're not afraid of anything are you? I said yes I'm afraid of one thing and the day after her birthday my worst fear came true. My wife passed away.

claryy

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I am so sorry
meeso13

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Thank you, it's really hard and I don't wish this on anyone, when they say a person can die if a broken heart I understand it, when she died a big part of me did too. We were never twenty four hours apart for twenty years, so everyday that goes by another piece of me goes with it and I have to find reasons everyday to stay above ground and I'm running out of reasons.
claryy

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I know that it can be hard, you lost the most importat person, but she is always with you
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meeso13

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Thank you for saying that, but it's not a fair trade, I'm selfish I guess I want her here with me, I want to feel her breathing lying close to me. I really want to touch her cheek hold her hand just look into her beautiful eyes and see her incredible smile,. I would give anything and everything to have one more day, even five more minutes if I could.

Answer 3

claryy

I am so sorry

Answer 4

meeso13

Thank you, it's really hard and I don't wish this on anyone, when they say a person can die if a broken heart I understand it, when she died a big part of me did too. We were never twenty four hours apart for twenty years, so everyday that goes by another piece of me goes with it and I have to find reasons everyday to stay above ground and I'm running out of reasons.

Answer 5

claryy

I know that it can be hard, you lost the most importat person, but she is always with you

Answer 6

meeso13

Thank you for saying that, but it's not a fair trade, I'm selfish I guess I want her here with me, I want to feel her breathing lying close to me. I really want to touch her cheek hold her hand just look into her beautiful eyes and see her incredible smile,. I would give anything and everything to have one more day, even five more minutes if I could.

Answer 7

ItsTheNephilim | 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Hurting her or letting her go when everything is perfect.

I'm always giving my 100% in the relationship or trying to be there. I mean it's only reasonable to do so otherwise it isn't fair for your partner.

ZELLxoxo

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my baby ❤️
ItsTheNephilim

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@ZELLxoxo ❤️😘
meeso13

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You won't hurt her or let her go when things are perfect if you do give it 100 that eliminates any fears or doubts. Just being there for her being attentive to her wants and needs is key. Marriage or a long term relationship can be sumed up by putting the person you're with their wants needs and best interest ahead your own. My wife before she passed could do no wrong in my eyes, even when she was wrong she was right, if she said the sky was pink then it's fucking pink and I defy anybody to come up and tell me otherwise. they would have to get used to eating through a fucking tube once they regained consciousness.

Answer 8

ZELLxoxo

my baby ❤️

Answer 9

ItsTheNephilim

@ZELLxoxo ❤️😘

Answer 10

meeso13

You won't hurt her or let her go when things are perfect if you do give it 100 that eliminates any fears or doubts. Just being there for her being attentive to her wants and needs is key. Marriage or a long term relationship can be sumed up by putting the person you're with their wants needs and best interest ahead your own. My wife before she passed could do no wrong in my eyes, even when she was wrong she was right, if she said the sky was pink then it's fucking pink and I defy anybody to come up and tell me otherwise. they would have to get used to eating through a fucking tube once they regained consciousness.

Answer 11

Hispanic-Cool-Guy | 1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Not fear, but I seriously hate being annoyed and bugged. I need my space and freedom to be happy and give my best. Once you start to bother me I shut down and just want to get away from you.

Answer 12

Agape93 | 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Letting yourself be truly vulnerable to your S/O, just to have them use it against you.

Answer 13

bklynbadboy1 | 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Letting some one in cause I'm so afraid of getting hurt

Answer 14

Guanfei | 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Either not being treated as equal, or abuse. Or cheated on.
I know that being cheated on would ruin me.

Answer 15

TonyMetal___86 | 117 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

In marriage, i'll say that the scariest part is divorce!

Answer 16

Tomsta | 493 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Having kids. I really dont like kids, it would be my life over

Answer 17

tae_ie

Xper 4

Giving to much and receiving nothing.

Answer 18

Valnac | 73 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Being cheated on.

Answer 19

Lonelywolfxl

Xper 5

stupidity

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Protein_mate | 63 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

A loss of interest

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