Did you ever fall in love with someone after just a few weeks? How did that work out for you?

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Answer 1

Xper 3

Love maybe not, I am to cautions for that. But my last girlfriend, I met her on the coach back from a rugby match a big group of us had gone to watch, we had gone out after and it was 2am when we all met back up at the the coach to head home. The only seat left was next to her. There was an instant connection and we chatted for the 2 hours back. Sadly fairly early on I learnt she had a boyfriend on the coach passed out at the back so I accepted the fact it wouldn't go anywhere and just enjoyed talking to her and at the end of the night we just went our seperates ways. 4 months later I went on a night out with a couple of mates and across the room I made eye contact with this girl, I didn't recognise her at first as the girl off the coach but I it was like an electric shock and I immediately thought to myself wow, she is something special! I went over and started talking to her, turned out she was now single and it ended up being a couple of the happiest years of my life. Unfortunately we did break up in the end. It wasn't really anyone's fault just the way it had to be.

Anyway maybe it was love at first sight and I am too emotionally cautious to admit it, or maybe it was just a spark that carried us both to love, all I know for sure was that night in the club when she was no longer off limits, I felt an instant connection that I had never believed in before that day!

Answer 2

Anonymous

I'm not sure if it's possible that quickly? I think you can feel something quickly, but I'm not sure if it's real love yet at that point? Infatuation, excitement of a new relationship etc maybe instead? I also think it gradually develops over time and you don't realize it right away. I found out that I've only actually been in love once in my life, and I didn't even realize how much so until the relationship ended. I knew I had strong feelings, but didn't realize how strong. This happened after 8 months and I don't even know when exactly I realized that I had any feelings at all. But I also think everyone is different, so that would be as well it's safe to assume.

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Imcmullan | 63 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 7

Yep! For the first time ever lol.. I knew I would love my current wife right away... after like a month I was in love. We moved in together in like 2 months.. married with in 10 months of being together n we are still happy. I love her more n more everyday. She understands me n completes me... we are definitely kindred souls.. everyday I can't believe I get to wake up to her and it still feels unreal! I hope that everyone finds this type. of love... time doesn't define love. Sometimes when you know u know... u just can't ignore red flags.. n be honest with yourself... also, understand what u can and can not tolerate. If it isn't worth arguing over as in you won't break up.. then learn to let some things GO... apologize.. and move on.. a relationship is about who can be the sweetest to one another.. not the opposite!
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! 💜💜💜💜

Answer 4

AshleyTaylorDanny

Xper 6

I can honestly say Yes I did for my husband. When we first met (and to this day) when we looked into each others eyes there was something deep amd familiar. It didn't take me long to know that he was going to be THE ONE... of course we didn't tell each other I Love YOU in the first few weeks. Guess we were waiting to make sure each of us was ready to say it lol.

Asker

1 mo
This is exactly how I feel about the man I’ve just met!! It’s like I’ve known him forever and he’s just so familiar and I can’t really explain it. He’s said it already even though I feel it I haven’t said it.
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
true

Answer 5

Asker

This is exactly how I feel about the man I’ve just met!! It’s like I’ve known him forever and he’s just so familiar and I can’t really explain it. He’s said it already even though I feel it I haven’t said it.

Answer 6

Smilingqueen2

true

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Knighted2170 | 171 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Yep and it... wait.

Nope, that was dream. Never mind.

Seriously though, I'm reserved with my feelings. I have stages that I go through before I can say that "I'm in love."

It's not just a way of protecting myself, but also her. If you misidentify the feeling and skip straight to love, it hurts that much more if things don't work.

But if you know, it's just attraction or infatuation, it doesn't hurt as much and it's easier to let go.

KingdomForAKiss

1 mo
Well said.

Answer 8

KingdomForAKiss

Well said.

Answer 9

TheLawAroundHere | 53 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 5

My wife and i fell in love in 3 months. Moved in together in 5 months. Married in just over a year. Its been 10 years now. And we are still waiting for our first fight.

Asker

1 mo
That’s amazing 😍
TheLawAroundHere

1 mo
Thanks, hun! Im still waiting on her to sober up and split. there's no way that im worthy of such a good woman.

They say that every man is entitled to:
A good woman
A good gun
And a good dog.

Well, i had a springer spaniel that, when i was training him, smelled a phesant... while he was inside a car going 35 mph... during a total downpour... and from 200 yards away. He jumped out of the car window and went on point. He was just a puppy, so i didn't think too much of it. I walked to him. Smacked him on the butt to get him off point. But he didn't relax. So i said "hunt 'em up". He ran, full tilt, to this little clump of tall grass in the middle of a mowed and bailed hay field. He stuck his nose in that patch and 2 birds flew out. From that day on, he was the boss.

I own a 6mm Model 700 Remington rifle. I was taught at an early age that if a gun won't put 5 shots underneath your thumbnail, sell it. Because if it won't do that, the gun just won't shoot. This gun will do the 5 shot trick every time. And I've marked a gallon milk jug at 2000 yards. I've killed everything that walked, creeped, or crawled through Pennsylvania.

Now this woman. Where to begin? For the 1st time in my life, i dummied into the right thing. I met her on the flaming dumpster fire that is Plenty of Fish. Maybe it got better. But 11 years ago, it was a meat market. She and i were just looking to fill some of the idle time. We were not looking for spouses. I clicked on her because i was trying to get into a fresh crop of women, and she lived an hour away. We talked on the phone every night for 3 weeks before we decided to go out. She then brings it to my attention that she has no idea what i look like. I just never got around to sending a pic. Sent it to her on Tuesday. She doesn't even look at it until Friday. We were set to go out on Saturday. As luck would have it, im a total babe. Hahahaha! We went on exactly one date. I shoulda stopped and bought a lottery ticket. Thats how lucky i was.

Answer 10

Asker

That’s amazing 😍

Answer 11

TheLawAroundHere

Thanks, hun! Im still waiting on her to sober up and split. there's no way that im worthy of such a good woman.

They say that every man is entitled to:
A good woman
A good gun
And a good dog.

Well, i had a springer spaniel that, when i was training him, smelled a phesant... while he was inside a car going 35 mph... during a total downpour... and from 200 yards away. He jumped out of the car window and went on point. He was just a puppy, so i didn't think too much of it. I walked to him. Smacked him on the butt to get him off point. But he didn't relax. So i said "hunt 'em up". He ran, full tilt, to this little clump of tall grass in the middle of a mowed and bailed hay field. He stuck his nose in that patch and 2 birds flew out. From that day on, he was the boss.

I own a 6mm Model 700 Remington rifle. I was taught at an early age that if a gun won't put 5 shots underneath your thumbnail, sell it. Because if it won't do that, the gun just won't shoot. This gun will do the 5 shot trick every time. And I've marked a gallon milk jug at 2000 yards. I've killed everything that walked, creeped, or crawled through Pennsylvania.

Now this woman. Where to begin? For the 1st time in my life, i dummied into the right thing. I met her on the flaming dumpster fire that is Plenty of Fish. Maybe it got better. But 11 years ago, it was a meat market. She and i were just looking to fill some of the idle time. We were not looking for spouses. I clicked on her because i was trying to get into a fresh crop of women, and she lived an hour away. We talked on the phone every night for 3 weeks before we decided to go out. She then brings it to my attention that she has no idea what i look like. I just never got around to sending a pic. Sent it to her on Tuesday. She doesn't even look at it until Friday. We were set to go out on Saturday. As luck would have it, im a total babe. Hahahaha! We went on exactly one date. I shoulda stopped and bought a lottery ticket. Thats how lucky i was.

Answer 12

toby2may

Xper 2

It worked for eight years but found out she was all about image have to be better than everybody else i did love her to death , but I'm no better than your or anybody for that matter so I left her when she was at word and left for another state. Few days later she called to say she was sorry but I told her that trying to get back together was not in my future time to move on and I did in my apinion it never works out.

Answer 13

Twalli | 790 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

I don't date outside of friends, because of that I become official extremely quickly. We already passed the stage of shared interests which means as long as we share physical attraction, we are a couple as far as I see it. Since the groundwork is already laid, it's possible to fall in love soon after becoming a couple.

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postempestas

Xper 5

YES! AND HE WASN'T READY, IT ENDED BADLY FOR ME... He broke my heart of course, the feelings weren't mutual. But I still like him, he's so attractive to me.

Smilingqueen2

1 mo
He don't deserve your like anymore
postempestas

1 mo
I know, atm I just want his body. If I could have him without his head I would be so happy.

Answer 15

Smilingqueen2

He don't deserve your like anymore

Answer 16

postempestas

I know, atm I just want his body. If I could have him without his head I would be so happy.

Answer 17

weysally | 141 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Explorer

no first I liked them, from there love developed, I'm a big believer that love at first sight isn't for real,

Smilingqueen2

1 mo
It is
weysally

1 mo
@Smilingqueen2 we all have our opinions, I like nine you like yours,
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
okay yes all have their own opinions, I believe in my love at first sight a lot
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weysally

1 mo
@Smilingqueen2 good for you. it would be a boring world if we all done the same thing
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
Lol yeah
weysally

1 mo
@Smilingqueen2 I think you have made your point, OK you believe in love at first sight
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
yeah I still believe
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
because I see only that love working for me
Smilingqueen2

1 mo
and is fully trustable than any other

Answer 18

Smilingqueen2

It is

Answer 19

weysally

@Smilingqueen2 we all have our opinions, I like nine you like yours,

Answer 20

Smilingqueen2

okay yes all have their own opinions, I believe in my love at first sight a lot

Answer 21

weysally

@Smilingqueen2 good for you. it would be a boring world if we all done the same thing

Answer 22

Smilingqueen2

Lol yeah

Answer 23

weysally

@Smilingqueen2 I think you have made your point, OK you believe in love at first sight

Answer 24

Smilingqueen2

yeah I still believe

Answer 25

Smilingqueen2

because I see only that love working for me

Answer 26

Smilingqueen2

and is fully trustable than any other

Answer 27

JakeGolding754

Xper 3

I fall in love after a few days.
It works pretty good.

Answer 28

paullingren

Xper 5

I thought so but it wasn't love. I hardly knew them as a person. It didn't last.

Answer 29

Danish87

Xper 4

Love always matter when other too fall for you. One sided always hurts as love always come with expectations.

Answer 30

Curious074

Xper 2

No, all my past relationships have gone on for six months to a year before I felt feelings x

Answer 31

pleasestopthis | 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Never happened to me, usually takes me a long time to be "in love" with someone.

Answer 32

Anonymous

Women fall in "love" within 10 seconds if the guy gets her wet on sight... no conversation or connection required. Warnings will be ignored.
If there is any justice, then she will end up abused and/or dead.

Answer 33

The_Outlaw | 103 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

Unfortunately. It ended rather badly. But the mistake was mine.

Answer 34

AmeerX | 618 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

I did after 1 month of talking and it didn't work when I confessed my feelings

Answer 35

Monil

Xper 2

There is difference between love and attraction i think this is attraction

Answer 36

H8INCHES

Xper 5

Yes.. it was actually less than 2 weeks. But nothing came of it.😶

Smilingqueen2

1 mo
lol😂

Answer 37

Smilingqueen2

lol😂

Answer 38

sheikalana | 272 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Yes, when I was a teen.

Answer 39

likelyOK | 276 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Explorer

It did not work out but it was also long distance.

Answer 40

Iamasking

Xper 4

I've been in love and he cheated.

Smilingqueen2

1 mo
cheating hurtss

Answer 41

Smilingqueen2

cheating hurtss

Answer 42

sadcountrygirl

Xper 3

Lol yes
Been together since 2017

Answer 43

Dman19

Xper 4

Usually takes longer for me.. Like 6 months

Answer 44

Hazelstar99 | 146 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 6

Didn't last long.

Answer 45

Exterminatore | 402 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Yeah. I married her.

Answer 46

Anonymous

I did. It turned out to be a nightmare.

Answer 47

Anonymous

I've never ever fallen In love.

Answer 48

Smilingqueen2 | 56 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Xper 5

good

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