That’s true but who is ever really suitable to fix someone. Like you said if you don’t like who they already are it’s no reason to be with them and if you’re that damaged mentally and emotionally to the point you depend solely on your partner to fix you and make you happy you don’t need to be in a relationship in my personal opinion.
There are people who have such relationships with each other that does away with all the damage and baggage they've ever had. Call it belief, placebo effect or over romanticizing, it happens. Doesn't have to happen with everyone, nothing wrong that.I agree with you. Having a partner and relying on them can only be pulled off on so many things. But that again depends on how compatible you're. Still, there are people who are like leeches; too draining without even them realizing and they ask so much from you. If you're not compatible with someone, simply don't date them. Make room for someone else to come in yours and their life.
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In those screenshots She doesn't sound like a good girlfriend.
What if you didn’t cause it and they just have trauma and pain from past relationships and experiences that you knew nothing about until you were in too deep?
Like i said, if you only present your side of the story, it will always be that we agree with you. However, we will still be giving blind answers.