When if you have to chose between "being with them" and "them being happy", you'd chose the latter. If you'd risk being sad/hurt for their happiness, you love them.
When you really love someone, you know how to let them go. Doesn't mean that they can't both be happy and be with you, just that their happiness is your priority above your own.
If someone you now makes you happy whenever you see or think about them you might be in love. If you can’t describe your feelings for someone in a human language than that’s love. If you are considering spending the rest of your life with someone you, then you love them.
“Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy or boast, it is not proud. It is neither rude nor self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”
That sums it up for me. So when somebody says they love me and those characteristics aren’t shown I know it’s BS.
That, and the Love of God, all things of God, Jesus and it's selfless. It makes you feel safe, heard, valued, cherish, warm, and positive. It isn't negative unless it relates to truth. Truth can hurt, but it does set you free.
When you really connect with a woman and everything is easy. She's interesting to you, she's funny, she's caring, she's sexy and you just can't stop thinking about her. You literally get a high and suddenly nothing bothers you anymore. You're under her spell and can't wait to see her everyday. You're naturally drawn to her and it's out if your control. At that point being away from her hurts and you're now addicted to her.
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