This guy is my first serious boyfriend and we have been dating for four months almost five. We spent some holidays together. For Thanksgiving and Christmas we spent separate. I did ask him to spend Christmas with me but he just said “I’ll see” and then he said he had a family thing planned and we decided to exchange gifts a few days before. We did talk about spending New Year’s Eve together a while ago. However today is New Year’s Eve and he's spending it with his buddies (that I have meet) at his house and not me. We will be seeing each other New Year’s Day but I just feel like our relationship should be more than what it is. He does put the effort in but sometimes I still feel like he just been seeing me as an option lately. Should I bring this up with him or am I just being paranoid?