Should I bring this issue up with my boyfriend or am I just being paranoid?

Anonymous
This guy is my first serious boyfriend and we have been dating for four months almost five. We spent some holidays together. For Thanksgiving and Christmas we spent separate. I did ask him to spend Christmas with me but he just said “I’ll see” and then he said he had a family thing planned and we decided to exchange gifts a few days before. We did talk about spending New Year’s Eve together a while ago. However today is New Year’s Eve and he's spending it with his buddies (that I have meet) at his house and not me. We will be seeing each other New Year’s Day but I just feel like our relationship should be more than what it is. He does put the effort in but sometimes I still feel like he just been seeing me as an option lately. Should I bring this up with him or am I just being paranoid?
Should I bring this issue up with my boyfriend or am I just being paranoid?
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