Girls, what would you think if you saw your boyfriend was subscribed to only fans with a bunch of girls?

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Id be so upset and hurt.. i dont think i could trust him after that. I believe that is emotionally cheating.

Answer 1

Xper 4

Big no.
I personally think there can be a small difference between let’s say try porn a bit and then have a subscription. That attitudes can be taken as his girl is not enough to please him and that is definitely not okay. You could talk to him about it but seriously, the trust won’t be the same.

Asker

21 d
Yeah it's different with that or reading sexy stories but that is just fucked up if he's jacking off to a girl giving shows and explicit content and really disrespectful to the girlfriend. I can understand how someone would question themselves and feel self conscious when their boyfriends do that stuff. The worst part is some guys don't care and will think more with their dick first.
HimmelMuffin

21 d
Definitely. Porn can be an issue and breaks trust but can be worked together. A subscription is a commitment to it so it can be off. I would dump him, but let him know why. I know some people would say you don’t owe anyone any explanations but at the same time they have to know the kind of jerk they are

Answer 2

Asker

Yeah it's different with that or reading sexy stories but that is just fucked up if he's jacking off to a girl giving shows and explicit content and really disrespectful to the girlfriend. I can understand how someone would question themselves and feel self conscious when their boyfriends do that stuff. The worst part is some guys don't care and will think more with their dick first.

Answer 3

HimmelMuffin

Definitely. Porn can be an issue and breaks trust but can be worked together. A subscription is a commitment to it so it can be off. I would dump him, but let him know why. I know some people would say you don’t owe anyone any explanations but at the same time they have to know the kind of jerk they are

Answer 4

Hangry22 | 651 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Yuck🤢
I will dump that simp and regret saying yes to him

Asker

21 d
Same!!👏👏👏that's literally just fucked up to do to a partner. I don't understand why they'd feel the need for that if they have a beautiful girlfriend that loves them.
Hangry22

21 d
Beautiful girlfriend or not, that's a dumb thing to spend money on. Shows how much desperate he is

Answer 5

Asker

Same!!👏👏👏that's literally just fucked up to do to a partner. I don't understand why they'd feel the need for that if they have a beautiful girlfriend that loves them.

Answer 6

Hangry22

Beautiful girlfriend or not, that's a dumb thing to spend money on. Shows how much desperate he is

Answer 7

Anonymous

It's not only emotional cheating, the guy is a loser. If he ever impregnates you you'll give birth to weak children, especially sons. They'll grow up to be serial masturbators like their Dad.

Asker

21 d
Exactly.. and like its not even an insecurity thing its just disrespectful and inappropriate to the girlfriend and boundaries! I mean i don't think reading sexy stories is cheating but when a guy starts interacting and putting his visual and emotional focus on other girls, he's already there. A family member of mine had an obsessive ex husband who cheated multiple times and threatened her if she left it was terrible because she didn't see it coming. I have a feeling most of that was kept on his phone secretly.

Answer 8

Asker

Exactly.. and like its not even an insecurity thing its just disrespectful and inappropriate to the girlfriend and boundaries! I mean i don't think reading sexy stories is cheating but when a guy starts interacting and putting his visual and emotional focus on other girls, he's already there. A family member of mine had an obsessive ex husband who cheated multiple times and threatened her if she left it was terrible because she didn't see it coming. I have a feeling most of that was kept on his phone secretly.

Answer 9

NickAdy9405

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I think such guys who pay for such things don't deserve a girlfriend

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