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1450- I've never had a girlfriend even ask. Of course, if I'm on my phone, it's virtually always a customer I'm talking to, and I do my best to get off the phone ASAP, so there's nothing about my behavior that she's likely to find threatening. I have virtually zero social media presence unless you count GaG - where I don't use my real name - and I don't use dating apps.
I pick up calls in the car on BlueTooth all the time, so she gets to overhear me talking to customers, so she knows what my phone time is like...0|00|0 - I think everyone is entitled to a bit of privacy and a few "secrets", even from their S. O. If you don't trust that your S. O. is faithful or really into you, that's your own personal flaw. Having their passwords will do what for you? It won't help your trust issues because you'll keep checking, and checking, and telling yourself "I'm just making sure", or using the old "trust, but verify" Reaganesque philosophy. But in the end, you're still not really trusting and actually "feeding" your own demon.
That said, I don't use social media (except this, if that counts?), so I don't give a shit. LOL0|00|0 - No. Not entitled to your phone codes or ATM code either and I hate it when they ask for it. If they want the phone code I usually end it. Not because I cheat but because I have a right to privacy. If she is so insecure then she shouldn't be in a relationship. I use "she" because I am male but it works the same for either gender-he doesn't have any right to HER codes either. If someone wants to cheat they will find a way and you cannot control someone 24/7 365 a year and if they really are cheating you already know it if you think about it0|00|0
- No. There are very few things people are entitled to. Frankly I don't care about my SO's social media, and mine is work related, so why would she be entitled to it?
People who think they are entitled to it are just insecure and are using it as a way to cause trouble.0|00|0 - I mean no... if you had the account before you guys were even a thing then 100% you shouldn't be "entitled" to give him that information. It's yours. You don't have to share everything... I mean in a happy relationship-- YES you should share most things... but it's still a good idea to keep some parts of you away for yourself so that you don't lose your identity.0|00|0
- Wow! Wowgirl, I think that's the most I've ever seen of your face and I must say I'm pleasantly surprised (it's a compliment to you lol).
As for the question, I don't know really.
My social media is completely open because I stay logged in.
But my phone has a passcode on it.
If I was married and in a very deep, trusting relationship with my wife, yeah I'd give her the passcode.0|00|0 - No, and I'm not entitled to any of hers either. Granted I think she knows mine because I told them to her and she has a good memory, and I just don't know hers because she's told me and I don't remember...
Strictly for the sake of convenience, like hey baby, check that for me while I'm cooking, putting our babies to bed, so on and so forth, both ways.1|00|0 - No. I'm also not entitled to hers. One of the reasons I like the concept of trust is that it grants some level of privacy. I can be on the shitter taking a dump and not have people banging on the door asking me what I'm doing or why I locked the door.1|00|0
- ebsolutely not. that's still part of me as an individual. i personally don't see partnership as "merging into one invididual" but "2 different individuals spending their time as partners" and as such, i keep social media and other passwords for myself as she keeps her stuff for herself.0|00|0
- I dont think so... i mean thats all bad going through their shit because there's tons of stuff everybody has that looks bad when your out to find bad... but probably is really nothing... so id rather not see it... besides if im treating my girl right she's not going anywhere0|00|0
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- Don't be silly.
Privacy is privacy. Doesn't matter if it's your mother, sister, friend or boss.
You are, as an individual adult, entitled to a level of personal privacy. As long as you're not breaking laws. You may maintain that level.0|00|0 - No. Everyone is entitled to privacy, even in a committed relationship. I don't need to look in my girlfriend's social media accounts, I don't even want to. Neither do I want her to look in my social media accounts.0|00|0
- Lucky for her this GaG this is as close as I get to social media. .. this mythical woman can read everything I type is she wants here. Even my private messages. It would be creepy but I have nothing sinister to conceal.0|00|0
- Certainly not! And if they asked I’d tell them where to go!
I have nothing to hide anyway! All my accounts are open.0|00|0 - Entitled? No.
I have all my passwords saved on my computer and stay logged in so they can see but I have almost zero presence on social media.0|00|0 - No why would they be? If they're that sus of you they can follow you or friend you or whatever.0|00|0
- My husband and I have no secrets or skeletons hiding within our marriage.0|00|0
- For what? She going to change my profile pic for me? Fuck that.0|00|0
- No but then auto-fill settings know them... I don't at this point0|00|0
- I love that edit! It's so fun!
I'd say no, simply because of personal space and I think it's ok to have some private places for the both of you. It's ok to share your profiles and what you post but keep your passwords private for the both of you1|00|0 - I don't believe so, no. I don't think you lose your right to privacy just because you enter a relationship.1|00|0
- no. If she wants access she can simply get on my PC and look at it. I dont give her access to my phone though as it is company property and i would lose my job if she had access.1|00|0
- No, but if she is worried I'll open it for her to look through - right before I dump her for not trusting me.0|00|0
- Not entitled but you'll probably end up sharing passwords for something.1|00|0
- No, and I don't ask for hers, either. Although after finding out about what one ex did behind my back...1|00|0
- No. If they don't trust me, or I can't trust them, things aren't going to work out in the long run.0|00|0
- Fuck no.
She can have the Netflix password if she's a good girl.0|00|0 - The best circumstances have no social media involved0|00|0
- No, that wouldn't be healthy in my opinion. Secrets are bad but you should still have a sliver of privacy.1|00|0
- It's best to not tell anyone your password. Unless it's some kind of emergency.0|00|0
- Ugh, such an insecure partner it's a turn off for me.0|00|0
- no there isn't. I try not to know about any social media accounts I still have... just know one thing..0|00|0
- In marriage, yes. But not before that in my opinion1|00|0
- No. Everyone needs some privacy.1|20|0
- That’s not something that I normally ask for and nobody has ever asked me.1|00|0
- No.
I would not think to ask, or would I care.0|00|0 - sure... idc, i have nothing to hide0|00|0
- If she wanted them, she could have them.0|00|0
- UHHHHHhhhhh... no No NO!👎0|00|0
- Yes. If it's a serious long term relationship0|00|0
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