Im killing myself mentally because im unable to move on?

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she's with her new boyfriend doing god knows what and here I am wishing I was with her. I can't stop thinking and wondering what they are doing. I hate the fact she will be having sex with someone else. It literally feels like my heart breaks every time I think about it or any intimate moment really. I can't let her go she's way to important to me but im literally killing myself mentally if I keep hoping. I really dont know what to do. I still talk to her a little bit but just as friends. Im really hoping they break up soon but it sounds like she likes him a good amount. If Im still not over her and she gets married I honestly dont know what the hell ill do.

Answer 1

Sessy

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It's going to cause more pain if you continue talking to her. You're not allowing yourself to move on. You have to let go and accept what happened between you both is in the past.

How do you move on if you keep the past in the present by talking to her?

Answer 2

Moonlovespirit

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Can I get some background? What happened between you both to make you feel this way?

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I’ll make it short we went on a date like last February. I’ll be honest I didn’t think I was going to like her that much but I did. She was way different than I thought she was but after the date she said that she wasn’t feeling a spark. I liked her like I said so I stayed friends with her and I was hoping along the way maybe something would catch on but it never did but my feelings got stronger for her and she cut it off with me because she knows how I feel about her. She said she thinks I’m getting the wrong idea when we hangout and doesn’t want to lead me on so now I only talk to her at work and its usually brief or when we’re walking to the same area. She just the exact type of girl I could see myself with and want to be with.

Answer 3

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I’ll make it short we went on a date like last February. I’ll be honest I didn’t think I was going to like her that much but I did. She was way different than I thought she was but after the date she said that she wasn’t feeling a spark. I liked her like I said so I stayed friends with her and I was hoping along the way maybe something would catch on but it never did but my feelings got stronger for her and she cut it off with me because she knows how I feel about her. She said she thinks I’m getting the wrong idea when we hangout and doesn’t want to lead me on so now I only talk to her at work and its usually brief or when we’re walking to the same area. She just the exact type of girl I could see myself with and want to be with.

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Luckycharms12 | 97 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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A you feel that way now it will pass delete her and move on find you again make yourself happy and good person will come along again

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iseekpinetrees | 250 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

You need to stop all contact with this person you have an unhealthy interest in her.

Answer 6

Anonymous

You're being possessive over a girl whose not even yours red flag

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I may be a little possessive but I know my boundaries with her. I leave her alone and don’t harass her about it. Can’t help it I like her so much
Opinion Owner

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I suggest moving on before you lose her as a friend

Answer 7

Asker

I may be a little possessive but I know my boundaries with her. I leave her alone and don’t harass her about it. Can’t help it I like her so much

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Opinion Owner

I suggest moving on before you lose her as a friend

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galway_gal

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I had the same exact feelings like a long time ago about someone and six years later I can't express how grateful I am that it didn't work out.

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PaganWarrior

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You'll find someone better.

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Máiiréad | 465 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

You will move on just as she has.

Im killing myself mentally because im unable to move on?

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