Does anyone else just no longer bother to look at people they find attractive anymore?

[Catphish]

Sure I’ve gone through this at times. But I’ve also noticed that other times they do stare back. I think it’s important for you not to get stuck in these thoughts for several reasons. First reason is extremely important for your future partner. You do want to be attracted to your future partner, because if not then you’ll always feel like you’ve lowered your standards and that means you won’t value your partner as much. Second, not all attractive guys are shallow, actually, men in general aren’t as shallow as a lot of girls think. Perhaps at your age it doesn’t seem that way but with time, trust me that they will outgrow it. Especially when it comes to settling down and starting a family, those priorities and qualities that they look for in a partner will shift. Third, even if you don’t feel conventionally pretty you should continue to try to look your best to help build your self esteem. Whether that means new hairstyle, better wardrobe, getting fit, however you think you can to improve yourself, then do it. Your confidence will diminish whatever flaw you think they see. And that’s the other thing, whatever you think your flaws are, that doesn’t mean other people will see them that way.

[WesBrewer]

When I see a beautiful girl I usually don't know them and I just think about them for the next few days and the accept the fact that I will never see them again.

[Giggletr0nn]

Oh yeah I don't even bother anymore. I sneak a glance of their ass as they walk by and that's about it.

[BoyCowBestCow]

i look at people i find attractive all the time. never changed tbh

[Anonymous]

Yes I do that too. Not necessarily regarding the beauty but with my personnality as well.

[catsandbroadway]

I glance at them every now and then

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Do you have Sim Syndrome?