Girls, Is this girl in an open relationship?

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Long story short. I asked her out. She has a partner. So we were going to go out still but she wanted to bring a friend because she knows I like her. After that I confirmed that I do like her. And her partner said I can’t go out with her anymore. But I see her hanging out with other people (girls and guys) and she puts hearts and all that near them in her Instagram story. Also important to note. She puts way more hearts and everything else into her pics with her partner. Is this a girl thing or is she in an open relationship?

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Answer 1

ZiZi_Bell | 93 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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It's just a girl thing. I mean, I don't put a bunch of hearts on my friend's pictures, but I know a lot of girls who do. It doesn't mean anything about her relationship. She was already bringing a friend because she didn't want you to think it was a date, and when you confirmed you thought it was a date the whole thing got called off.

Asker

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Ok. It’s so confusing how girls operate sometimes. Also there was this time I got pissed off at her and posted with my other girl friends. And couple days later she does the same with her guy friends. She’s never done that before and she has only done that after I posted with another girl. Was it jealousy?
ZiZi_Bell

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I doubt it.
Honestly she probably didn't even remember it if it was a couple days later.
Asker

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It seemed strange because after that moment she just stopped watching my story completely and she has never done that. She went out of her way to avoid it. And she posted guys right after too
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ZiZi_Bell

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Pretty sure you're just reading too much into it.
Asker

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Yea ok. I just hope she’s not in an open relationship. The partner apparently asked about me and what I look like and all that. Like if it was an open relationship the partner wouldn’t be asking right? The partner wouldn’t really care who she’s going out with. They also got in a fight where the partner wanted to be together more but she wanted more space. So they got in a fight.
Asker

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They also wouldn’t be fighting right. Like isn’t open a mutual agreement. Fights shouldn’t be happening like this. When I said let’s go out she’s like it’s cheating so I don't know if she’s being truthful or if I’m thinking too much into it

Answer 2

Asker

Ok. It’s so confusing how girls operate sometimes. Also there was this time I got pissed off at her and posted with my other girl friends. And couple days later she does the same with her guy friends. She’s never done that before and she has only done that after I posted with another girl. Was it jealousy?

Answer 3

ZiZi_Bell

I doubt it.
Honestly she probably didn't even remember it if it was a couple days later.

Answer 4

Asker

It seemed strange because after that moment she just stopped watching my story completely and she has never done that. She went out of her way to avoid it. And she posted guys right after too

Answer 5

ZiZi_Bell

Pretty sure you're just reading too much into it.

Answer 6

Asker

Yea ok. I just hope she’s not in an open relationship. The partner apparently asked about me and what I look like and all that. Like if it was an open relationship the partner wouldn’t be asking right? The partner wouldn’t really care who she’s going out with. They also got in a fight where the partner wanted to be together more but she wanted more space. So they got in a fight.

Answer 7

Asker

They also wouldn’t be fighting right. Like isn’t open a mutual agreement. Fights shouldn’t be happening like this. When I said let’s go out she’s like it’s cheating so I don't know if she’s being truthful or if I’m thinking too much into it

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