So my kids dad was in a miserable relationship for years. He finally left and said he wanted to be with me more and he knew he couldn’t if he was with her. So I stayed put before jumping in. I wanted to see if he was serious and actually gone for good. So he’s been gone for months. Hasn’t caved or went back. So he’s been inviting me EVERYWHERE. Planning trips and just seems so happy. He asks me to stay the night all the time. So the other night I stayed the night and he told his kids not to tell her I stayed the night. (They told her and she was upset). He still doesn’t want her to know he’s messing with me. He moved to just hide what he’s doing. I don’t understand. She hates my guts. And he said he just doesn’t want her in his business because she brings drama. But it doesn’t sit right with me. What do y’all think?