How come I always think about getting in a relationship when I know no girl would want me?

[1031ent]

Bro you got to work on yourself and love yourself first. Develop a code to live by and write it down. Post it on the wall

Here is mine...

1 - Be Honest
2 - Time is our most valuable resource.
3 - Life is a mirror what you put out, is what you receive.
4 - Words carry power, we speak things into existence.

Once you have your code, repeat it, memorize it. Look at it everyday, until you can see it in your dreams. Become the code, live your life according to your code. People will respect you, assuming your code is respectable (see the mirror rule).

Next create a vision on who you are and where you are going. Develope a dream and walk down your dream path. People are attracted to visionaries. They want to be apart of your dream.

At this point you should already be attractive. Develope a good opening line. Something that is disarming, like you are just looking for a second opinion. People love to give there opinions... Then boom you are into a conversation.

"Hey can you break a tie for me? Do you floss before you brush your teeth, or do you brush your teeth and then floss?"

You would be surprised how disarming this approach is. You are not coming in trying to introduce yourself or get information about them. Instead your just asking for an opinion. I have asked this exact question and just had women who were ease dripping chime in with there two cents.

Hope that helps, but you got to love yourself first bro.

[SlightlyEccentric]

Why would you want to willingly bring in that kind of drama into your life?

Every relationship I've ever been in (and no I'm not exaggerating) has been nothing but drama fueled nightmares. That's been my perspective of dating women and I have had not one reason to believe the contrary. This is probably gonna piss some people off but would you rather I lie to this kid? What the fuck do you want me to say? Yeah being single kinda sucks but being in a continuous barrage of gray-hair enducing relationships is even worse.

[btbc92]

Do you even want one or are you doing that or expecting it because others are pressuring you? You have to have a logical reason to date and you must form relationships with people by going out there. You don't know that because you never tried to get to know people. And the ones who may be interested in you, you may not be physically attracted to them. You miss out. Everybody had chances and choices.

[FeralChihuahua]

Put yourself out there, there are so many different ways of meeting people especially when having the internet

[WesBrewer]

Because your mind is wired to want to get a wife and have a family.

[JayisI]

You're 17 you have a long time to look for someone. Find more out about yourself.

[Anonymous]

No girl would want you? Or no girl you would want, would want you?

[Avicenna]

That's a reasonable and healthy desire. There is someone out there for you.

[Iron_Man]

You can get a girl there’s somebody out there for everybody

[FakeNIK]

How can be you so sure...

[iseekpinetrees]

Keep trying.