That sounds like a good balance!
I think it's a mixed bag for many of us.
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I think confidence is just more important then ego. I mean I look at it this way. It's 400 billion to one odds of becoming a human being so we already hit the genetic jack pot. When you stop allowing other peoples opinion influence what you will do with your life you will soar.
I don't really care what most people think of me because they're wildly inaccurate about who they think I am. It's just more like my personal goals not aligning with reality, no matter how hard I try or what I do.
Well I wish you luck on figuring it out man!