Should I break it off with my girlfriend?

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I have been dating these beautiful girl. Yes she is attractive good looking cute. But as the time goes by I am noticing how hard our relationship gets. First of all she is making me go to her church every good dam Sunday. I ask her if she could wear make up for me and she tell me that's a devil's not wanting woman to accept themself the way God made them. I know weird , I gets upset if I say the F- word. As it has been 2 moths now I say it is time her and I started having Sex to get that special bound connection my girlfriend refuse and told me I was surrounded by demons, She has condition that I would need to get approved by her pastor for marriage marry her and I would have to convert apostolic pentecostal. As I see it is a toxic relationship. I am catholic I do believe in god. Anyone on here ever dated a pentecostal?

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btbc92 | 3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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First of all I see it like this. You're the one that made the decision and choice to date her. I have nothing to do with her being Pentecostal you being Catholic it's a simple fact that you are not compatible. She's right on some things but she's wrong on other things. If you don't want to wear makeup she's fine not to wear makeup. It really all depends on what you do with it otherwise makeup can be witchcraft. Now concerning about you, if you want to fornicate you're free to fornicate will do whatever it is that you want, but don't be asking her to commit sin with you. If you know you don't want to be involved with somebody who wants to try to live their life spiritually, you should have left long ago a lot of the fun of men who is just like her. And you can find an atheist woman or more likely atheist cuz you don't even sound like you Catholic, and do it is if you want. She can't force you to do anything just like you can't force her to do anything. Both of you are wrong. I will not be dating somebody who does not share the same values. And now that my go to make him go to church. If he naturally don't want to go to church the answer is obviously or no. She hasn't want to do those things for himself it ain't for me to try to force them. Don't what she saying would be similar rules to what I would active anybody that don't share them. But if you know don't want to, you're free to leave. And about her being beautiful has 0 about love and respect and it's obvious you don't love no respect that you just want to screw. You just want her to look thinking for you that's all it basically that. But when it comes down to her you hate it. So enough is enough. Man want to know why I grow weary of anybody who wants to talk about my looks that's why because I know what it's about.

btbc92

21 d
I wouldn't say that is toxic. She's just resistant to you and you're resistant to her and it's very pretty both don't need to be with each other. The man was to fight with me because he don't like the conditions that I said yeah he wants to date me he's free to go. If she tell me what the conditions are oh, and you say you want to be with her that's what the conditions are, but if you want a woman to be sexualized and you saying you believe in stuffed and I think you better re-evaluate do you really believe in God and you doing the very things that goes against what God's words says.
Asker

21 d
God u what are you 40?
I was in a threesome last year.
Sex is normal we r not in the 1950's
btbc92

20 d
First of all ain't about it being 40. Your fornicating. Ain't about being normal. You want sex you get married. You're not legally married, you're in sexual sin. You want to do that you do that elsewhere. You don't drag down somebody who's serious about their relationship with God and you're not. Don't call yourself a Catholic or whatever and you don't believe in God. You say you do what you do what you do the very thing that goes against what God has said to do. Which is adultery. Look at your own hypocrisy in your own sin before you want to start talkin about what your girlfriend has going on. You don't respect their please dump her immediately. I don't even agree with what you're doing, she's not entirely wrong, but I don't blame her. You need to go elsewhere and if you're going to be acting like that.
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btbc92

20 d
You want to be a manwhore, stay out there. don't even want to know what possible disease you probably must have got.
Asker

20 d
You rude okay Mrs pentecostal. I hope you trip on ur skirt 😂
Asker

20 d
U sound like a 40 year old.
Nothing wrong with having sex u r one of those people.
Asker

20 d
U talk like a pentecostal
btbc92

20 d
First of all I'm not being rude. And who says I'm Pentecostal? The fact that you would say something so ugly since something about you. First of all God has said that sex is a marriage and marriage is all about sex. To the fact that you basically cheating on your girlfriend and you screwing around with different people says a lot about you not her. You want to talk about me thinking like a Pentecostal. Know it comes from the word of God. Somebody who can claim yourself who you service the devil. That ain't me being rude as fact about yourself that you don't like. It wouldn't be me dating a manwhore. And first of all my skirts isn't long enough for me to be tripping on you dummy. Your parents must be really proud raising up a delinquent. You don't need a partner, you definitely don't need to be having sex, and you definitely don't need to be married. You need to be out there hoeing around like you choose to do. Let the girl go so she can be with a man who's going to treat him with respect. Cuz you sir is definitely not a man. I don't need to be 40 years old to know the word respect. I knew that since I was a child. And I stayed away from hypocritical men like you. You not only give Not A Bad Name, you give Catholics a bad name. My family grew up Catholic, thank God my late mother told me the truth about yourselves.
btbc92

20 d
Not only do you act like an immature child, you're very disgusting. No you get married then you have sex. But you're technically married in the eyes of God, having sex with all these women and divorcing them. But I was talking about something wrong with it and now you can't handle it. You only with a just a screw around and have sex. You don't give a damn about nobody else but yourself. I don't need to be a Christian to tell what kind of man you are. No I'm a person that believes in doing right by God, and getting married if you want to have sex. Not have sex and get involved with a man who's irresponsible like you. Not just sexually and responsible, but can't even handle a relationship. And I wouldn't be talking about me if I were you. I'm young enough to look 13 you probably be trying to hit on me and I'll tell you what's right there. That's how disgusting you really are. Never once tripped on my skirt and at least I look good in it. Just know you're going to reap what you sow with everywhere you want to speak bad about me. God is very much really he is not going to be mocked. Any curse you want to try to put on me I reject and rebuke in the name of Jesus. Back to sender.
btbc92

20 d
That goes to show how much ignorance you have. Do you honestly think God approves to be having such a man claiming to be of him talk as if you are the world? Your of the world you are not of God, is very clear you are Catholic by label. Men and women like you alike doing stuff like this and claiming to be of God, is an embarrassment. Tramps like you need to be out in the street not in a home with a woman, who's bad enough trying to change you to be a better man, since you're pining after her for sex so much, yet that's not what you want. You just want to hop in her panties. Really disgusting. It's not about having sex. You even disrespect how God created sex what should be intimate environment between a man and a woman whose husband and wife. You even disrespect sex. Why would anybody in their right mind want to have sex with you except for those who thinks just like you? Problem is that your girlfriend can't lead you to God because you already rejected him by your actions.

My late mother who had HPV, who had sex before marriage even warned me not to have sex before marriage. The fact that you disrespecting me you disrespected my late mother. You actually think I'm going to put myself in the same fate because you can't learn to keep your legs freaking close, and your junk in your trunk? Do you actually think I'm going to be stupid! Your a health risk! Not just a moral risk. Cheating on his girlfriend, a player, somebody who don't need to be married, somebody's want to getting a divorce eventually, shaming his girlfriend, shaming people, have no respect for God or himself. You're a keeper alright. And abusive on top of that. Nobody said sex is wrong. What you choose to do with it is. That's what makes it a sin. If you don't leave her, I just pray in name of God that he reveals your true nature so she can finally leave you.
btbc92

20 d
2 months and already want to hop in her pants? You don't want a bond. You just want pleasure! And it brought to fight your sexual life. You don't care about her. People want to know why I don't want to bother with men, why don't want to get married, why wouldn't date and never dated, while I'm a virgin and rather die as one? It's because of tramps like you. You lied to get into a woman's pants. Telling her what she should be doing. And you're already sleeping with other people. There's only one reason why you with him why you still haven't left there yet. And it's because she's too attracted to the point you feel like you wouldn't miss an opportunity to screw her because you know there's no other girl out there supposedly that's going to want to take you. That's all it is. You just want to win bam and then move on because you know John well you ain't going to stay with her long. And because you know that she ain't out there messing around with other men so you want to control her yourself. I know exactly what kind of relationship this is not know exactly the kind of man you are. The fact that you think that she's nuts since something right there about you. You are major red flag. I wouldn't even suggest an atheist date you. And I'm friends with plenty of atheist.
Asker

20 d
Wow u need to go to a mental institution. Everyone else has had sex people my age especially. What planet do u live in grandma? I never disrespect you or ur mother. Go make an appointment to the eye doctor you need glasses. Wow u r still a virgin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 At ur age. What r u trap in the 1950's. by the way u did committed a sin u called me dummy that is a sin.
btbc92

20 d
Asker, nobody cares. You're the one who needs to go to that institution because you think what you're doing is known as not normal. And first of all no. God knows who he made in who's who. He makes a person with intelligence. So if you are going to be acting as if you don't have any then know it's true. I'm a virgin at my age because I know better to save myself instead of wasting it on people like you who don't know how to appreciate. A list of 1950s I know to get a husband and have sex as much as I want my husband and have a family. Not bring a Tramp home. And first of all you are disrespecting my mom because she's who won thank God it tells me to wait. Did you go already disrespecting My Mother by disrespecting me. And first of all my eyesight is quite good thank you very much. I don't care if you want to laugh or not. I don't look for tramps like you.
btbc92

20 d
Jokes on you. First of all no. Everybody at your age is not having sex. The fact that you're acting as if this is still high school said where your mental illness. Which is why I said you need to go to the mental institution because you're living as if you are 14 and you're not. Grow the hell up nobody cares about your sex life with a man who you slept with.
btbc92

20 d
Someone like you wouldn't know how to have sex with someone like me anyway because you're too busy having sex with too many different people. Why would I want a guy that don't know how to have sex? And and God forbid end up with erectile dysfunction before 30! 🤣🤣🤣
btbc92

20 d
You want to waste your Sexual Energy oh, that you could have had in a stable Union with a wife, whom your girlfriend is already offering, and you want to make fun of her and I? How idiotic can you be! Let's say for example she does fornicate with you. I have no doubt she's going to be sexually miserable with you!
btbc92

20 d
Guys like you who Pump up that garbage don't have much to offer! And of my friends who did had sex outside of marriage who slept wouldn't cost so much to you, I can guarantee you they're probably say that you don't know how to have sex! Which is probably why you're having threesomes! 😂😂
btbc92

20 d
Just because I'm a virgin that doesn't mean I'm uneducated about sex. What makes it even said as much as I don't care about all that nonsense, your conversation with me alone tells me right there you probably not that good in bed. Like I said. I don't care about it. But it says a lot and I bet you it's true.
Asker

20 d
U need to go to mental institution for sure something is weird off with u. Threesome r fun. Not my fault I r boring grandma. U r sounding like my girlfriend. U know I will take ur advice I am going to dump my girlfriend because she is a judgmental woman like u! My girlfriend being obsessed with cleaning. Cleaning is not that important! My girlfriend feels the weird need to mop the floor everyday when the floor should be mop once a month. My girlfriend has OCD and judgmental. Cleaning is not important at all.
btbc92

20 d
Go screw yourself up buddy you're a loser.
btbc92

20 d
No she just being herself who is who she is and how God made and designed ger. Well buddy, I can only hope and pray you're not infected with something. I rather be a grandma, that'd be stuck with someone like you who's only going to give me STDs. You don't need a girlfriend, you don't need to get married, and you don't need to be involved with anybody. You need to be out there, do what you're doing, and leave everybody else someone who wants a future. You do what you want. If you got four big get sick with something because you chose to do stupid, that's on you. Something is really off with you cuz you're the one that doesn't sound normal.
Asker

20 d
U r very opinionated I see just like my girlfriend. U think u r better then anyone else because I r a virgin. A 68 year old would be a perfect match for u since I have the mentally of a woman of 1950's. No man my age would waste his time in u no sex equals a brake off.
btbc92

20 d
Shouldn't be dating her if you didn't like what her standards are. That's how miserable of a person you are.
btbc92

20 d
Actually there are plenty of men around your age that actually do and they actually very quite happy that I'm not like someone like you all women that does the same as you. Nothing wrong with being opinionated. And I don't think I'm better than you. You already think less of yourself. That's why I called you a loser because only a loser speaks like you.
btbc92

20 d
Because even if I wasn't a virgin I know better not to go with guys like you. You have nothing to offer. To be honest is only you to actually think that.
Asker

20 d
But my girlfriend is good looking and attractive. U as a woman do not take cleaning Seriously.
btbc92

20 d
So what. I'm so cold good looking at attractive too. All you care about is pumping and. Yes we do need to take cleaning spiritually because if we don't take cleaning seriously then you going to golf a bit get sick like people are getting sick with this coronavirus now! The fact that you think that way said that you don't need to be with a woman and you just need to be on your own single for the rest of your life. Not dragging down another person because you want to be a bum. Woman don't like guys like you. Period. Why your girlfriend bother to waste her time with you is beyond me.
btbc92

20 d
No what you men need to do is learn to appreciate and respect a woman before that same woman leaves you for another man.
Asker

20 d
Oh God another ocd woman. Now how the hell is wearing make up bad? EVery woman wears make up except the delusional ones that don't want to look pretty and attractive.
Asker

20 d
And cleaning is not important God is and family. I hate it how I woman think cleaning the house is a priority. My girlfriend would cleaning her house first before going out to dinner with me. That's is stupid.
Asker

20 d
Why do u Christian woman think cleaning is so important?
btbc92

20 d
OCD? Dude, get the hell outta here! I am an INFJ. NOT OCD! "Now how the hell is wearing make up bad? EVery woman wears make up except the delusional ones that don't want to look pretty and attractive." No. Every woman doesn't wear makeup.. There are plenty of women who are naturally attractive without makeup! Makeup especially commercial ones are toxic to the body, expensive for organic ones, and not EVERY woman wears makeup to look or feel PRETTY. They want to because they want to. A woman is not delusional for not wearing makeup. Nobody is here to impress you! What it is is that your an emotional, mental, and psychological abuser who preys on insecure women with low-self esteem like your girlfriend because you want to control her. You're sick! I've been told by plenty of men that I look great without makeup.

"And cleaning is not important God is and family. I hate it how I woman think cleaning the house is a priority. My girlfriend would cleaning her house first before going out to dinner with me. That's is stupid." BUDDY. Stop. You don't serve God. You don't care about God. Because your speaking to a Godly woman and even he told me to ignore you. You're a hypocrite. No, you hate it because your a dirty as a person. And she is too clean for you to handle. She clean her house because she likes things CLEAN. The word of God talks about cleanliness and even the old saying is cleanliness is next to Godliness. Why do you think so? Your more HAPPIER that way. You can ENJOY LIFE better that way. My friends who are also Christian and PENTICOASTAL learned this from their parents, and everybody would always love coming to their house because it's CLEAN. Even their boyfriends and husbands at the time loved it because that is what a woman DOES. It's what's in us to do and that is how God made us. Read your Bible instead of shaming God's creation.
btbc92

20 d
She's not OCD. That is a mental condition. She's probably ISFJ or an INFJ like me. Which is a personality type of the MBTI 16 personality types. NOT OCD. It's a personality trait for those who have Judging as part of their 4 letter name. Maybe you're a perceiver Who has a P at the ending of their personality who doesn't find it important. But your definitely an unhealthy person with your personality and so is she. Either way, you're abusive. People with J are orderly people and love to do things accordingly. That what makes us HAPPY. You think I like chores? No. But it can be stress relieving especially when you're tidying it to the way how YOU enjoy it. Helping others also makes us feel fulfilled and our life purposeful. The last thing we need is a selfish complainer who is lazy and doesn't appreciate what somebody does for them out of love. If you don't want us cleaning anything then you either better do it yourself or get rich and hire a maid so we don't have to do anything. Next, you'll call us golddiggers. You men who acts like this are a joke! Don't want a hardworking woman, complains if she doesn't do anything. Fickle like women.
btbc92

20 d
Women spend on makeup more than their telephone and cable bill ALONE, NOT INCLUDING shoes, clothes, and everything else. Yet you expect us to be PRETTY? And look attractive? You must be CRAZY. I only wear makeup for work and special occasions. Other than that, I don't like MAKEUP! And if a man doesn't like it or me for whatever reason, he can take a hike! Rather save up money for a home than wasting thousands of dollars on something that expires every 3 months. How ridiculously do you sound right now.
Asker

19 d
No guy will want u Oh wait I know what guy will want u for sure only an old 65 year old men would want u. U and a 65 year old would be lovely perfect match for u since I r unattractive and ugly no dude my age will ever want u. U r ugly woman
btbc92

19 d
Stop trolling because you're just mad that no good woman her right mind actually wants you. I don't need to date a 65 year old just to prove it. And first of all I'm not ugly. I just know not to dabble with a health risk such as yourself.
btbc92

19 d
My attractiveness has nothing to do with whether or not a person wants to be with me or not. And I'm not going to accept your curses. God is in control. He wants me with somebody then he permits that. If not then he don't. I don't need somebody like you try to play God. Heard that lie when I was eight. I am believing no more of you sick men's lies thinking you going to try to control me! I am more than just my looks or my body, I'm a human being with a soul, feelings thoughts and emotions of my own! If a woman can't love you for your soul the same for a man they only with you for a body. How many bodies is more attractive than you? Plenty. So does think you're the only person that every woman has to go for is ridiculous. There are people that are more attractive than me and then maybe people that are more attractive than them. Who Cares! At the end of the day I love me oh, and I love the way how God design and make me. Just because I don't feel or look so-called perfect in Man's eyes, that does not mean I'm not wonderfully and fearfully made. Whether I'm attractive or not it does not give you the right to treat me like garbage! I would never have done it to you. Why the hell would you do it to me? You hate yourself that much? Says a lot.

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