Like he’s asking how you are doing and if your seeing anyone. Even before the amends he wanted to know where I worked because he implied we might bump into each other and I don’t want it to be weird. We hadn’t seen each other in a couple of years so don’t know how we bump into each other but okay. They are saying it’s important to them that I’m okay and they want to meet up to make amends for the past but they have to ask their sponsor and significant other first. But the whole time their playing video games with their significant other and don’t ask permission in that moment. But when you ask about the meet up like a few days before they are like I have to work and pick up my significant other from work.