When you met your partner who made the first move?

[WhiteSteve]

I guess I started the flirting, technically. We definitely were shaking hands upon introduction like “YUP, I’m gonna get on THAT”😂, so it wasn’t really daring on my end. But I was working as a bouncer and she was a customer, and I went over to her while she was picking songs out at the jukebox and said something like “you’d better be playing something good.” We were talking for a minute there, and then later I hung out with her (dealing with her friend who introduced us, who was a kind of crazy chick who was weirdly into me, as it turned out. She was a cool 200+ too, lmao, no disrespect, but it wasn’t happening. But anyway, that night I got thwarted because I get to the house they were all at and my now-gf was off fighting with her ex who she had just broken up with, and I got stuck and left with the crazy chick who was trying to throw it at me, and I was driving on a suspended license and couldn’t risk driving across town at 4 AM, and it was just a harrowing experience lmfao.

Anyway, maybe a week later I finally got my chance to hang out with her, and I think at the bar the night before she had said something to me like “your accent is sexy” after she had a few drinks in her, haha. So I was basically just trying to close at this point. But I was hanging out with her and the crazy chick, my girl is half-passed out because they were drinking long before I got there, and I’m like “here we go again.” But she came to and asked me to help her to the bathroom, so I did, and she pulled me into the bathroom and started kissing me. I guess it’s a tale for another time, but it was pretty wild... the crazy chick like I said had a thing for me, I think she read the silence from the other room and knew we were making out, and she had a fucking MELTDOWN lmao, ended up outside with no pants on in fucking February and smashed an empty vodka bottle off the wall above the main door to the town police headquarters which was right across the street. Somehow was not arrested, or even seen, but then she came back inside and broke every dish in her cabinets and ended up in the mental ward for like a week. How’s that for a getting together story?😂

[Nawlins34]

She made the first move, we were part of a social group and we (as a group) constantly got into topics, but we never spoke outside of the group.

She introduced herself to me one-on-one, I took over from there.

So I took the first overt move, but she let me know through her actions, she's available.

[Ewgies01]

Him. For sure. He said he saw me and he wasn’t going to let me leave without asking for my number.

[YourSong]

It was on a app where girls needed to make the first move

[exitseven]

I met my wife out of state and she didn't want anything to do with me. She was careful not to tell me her name. She did however tell me where she graduated from college. I went to the college and went to the library and got her yearbook and found her picture and name. Then I called her on the phone and asked her out. She asked me how I found her and I told her about the yearbook. She was impressed but turned me down anyway. A month later we met up again and she decided to give me a chance.

[Twalli]

She made the first move, but didn't tell me. It didn't help that when she chose to go on a date with me, her friend found her before the date started. I thought it was a set up. She was setting me up with her friend. After I made a move we became official and that's when she told me.

[EssenceOfLight]

She was the initiator.
She came and checked me out on a party that friend of us both made for this sake, I invited her to a date. My female friend talked a lot in best tones about her before we met at this party, but I didn't know her. I saw her one time before but I didn't notice any special interest from her side.

[Miristheiss]

I made the first move. I asked her out. We had been on several dates before she asked me to do anything or initiated a date.

[Anonymous]

I'm not that good at making the first move lol. I'll do it if I feel like they won't do anything. It's not that I'm bad at it, I look confident in what I'm doing but inside my mind is freaking out lol.

Normally the girl makes the first move and I just go along with it and get more confident as it goes on.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

My ex made the first move. Several first moves actually. He said hi to me first, asked me out, he kissed me... I'm bad at making first moves lol

[NathanDavis]

Now I am not sure...
what if she made the first move, but I created the opportunity?

[IronLady6354]

I was actually pretty hesitant to go out with my now husband when he first asked me out. I'm glad I did though!

[JosyJosy]

I made the first move, wasn't going to allow that blonde to potentially change his mind

[Alexa703]

I did but when your gay sometimes got take a chance.

[Anonymous]

Me and I’m not proud (as I was raised to believe stereotypical gender roles) but I’m glad i did because we’re together and one of the relationships I’ve always dreamed about

[aniki94]

Met on a study project, so at that time it was mutual, texting about stuff. Me asking him out though.

[lillianaustin]

it was mutual , but he was about to make the first move

[Mac-One]

Mutual - we were both young and it was first time for both of us. We progressed gradually and can't recall who initiated what. First date was 59-1/2 years ago.

[Dnice1]

I made the first move and it worked out very well ❤

[Anonymous]

why do i get the feeling that women making the first move or asking a guy out, will never become more common or mainstream, i've always had resentment due to how society or nature dictates that its the mans role

[ScotishLegend]

It was a natural agreement.

[Anonymous]

Why do I get the feeling this will never become more common, as in, women making the first move or being the one to initiate a relationship

[msc545]

She did, actually. It's kind of part of her culture.

[JEndigoBleue]

It's always mutual. It just happens.

[Sia_nee]

My most recent ex made the first move.

[Imcmullan]

I made the first move lol

[slatyb]

She sent me a note on match. com.

[pigoat]

I got the moves

I make that back move

[Nikki1989]

I am happy to say he made the first move.

[Massageman]

Guilty

[Iron_Man]

It was a dating site

[Agape93]

She did

[ct1243]

Single and hopeful

[collie22]

i admit it was me