It is wrong to prefer being a taker in a relationship?

It is wrong to prefer being a taker in a relationship?
Since every time I am a giver I get told that it's "not necessary" and that I should just let her and others take care of me, I've been getting more and more comfortable in being a taker.
I don't give unless asked and rarely on my initiative since I'll probably get told it's "unnecessary", and I hoard for myself money, stuff, resources and emotions.
It is wrong to prefer being a taker in a relationship?
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