Which combination best matches how you prefer to do things in a relationship?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I'm not traditional, but I think saving my body until he agreed to sign a marriage certificate with me first. I'm neutral (please educate me which preposition is correct here :p) whether we have a wedding ceremony or not. Marriage to me is all about legal. That means if I lose my virginity to a man, and then he left me expecting we'd be sexually compatible, it's ridiculous. It's a responsibility, not an instant pleasure. We've got to learn what make each other happy. Then communication does matter. I don't think we need practices by having sex with other people before the marriage. Both for men and women.

By the way, I declared I'm not traditional because I believe that everyone is capable of doing things not according to our genders apart from biologocal stuff. Plus, if I let a man pay for me for everything when we go on dates, it's doubtedly he might want something back, fast. So it's going to be a fair and good plan with mature discussions. I also disagree with being traditional when a man is a breadwiner and thinks he can spend money on hookers or having a side chick. That's absolutely intolerant. Promiscuous men don't have a right to demand for a good, well-behaved woman.

[Kas19]

I prefer our honeymoon sex to be mid blowing. Having sex for the first time just sounds awkward and possibly dissapointing. I don't believe in saving sex until marriage, though I do prefer having sex when I trust them and actually love them. It's not for everyone though. Humans like sex and they're gonna have it one way or another.

I don't believe in traditional gender roles. The work in our household is divided evenly. I don't believe the mother should be taking care of the kids full time. I think father's should have equal opportunity to nurture and love their babies. I would also like to pursue my career.

[Lliam]

I don't believe in saving sex for marriage. In fact, I would never marry someone without knowing if we were sexually compatible. I prefer liberated women who enjoy sex, so I don't care if she has been with other guys before.

I also don't believe in gender roles. My partner and I are equals. Nobody is the boss. We share the work and figure out how to accomplish that to both of our satisfaction.

[clampfan101]

I believe sex must be saved for marriage.
I’m fine with or without traditional gender rolls. It’s all about treating each other as equals.

[Apple1996]

Sex before marriage is fine but I do like the traditional way of life. That's just how I lived my life if other people prefer it differently then that's fine for them.

[littlelady1234]

Truth be told i think im a combination of both. I believe it is up to the individual to decide if they would like to wait til marriage but to me personally I don't think it matters as long as you love the person. You could love the person and not be married but want to have sex, and you could also be married and not in love but still have sex. so to me i believe its more moral to have sex with someone you love rather than someone you're married to. When it comes to gender roles I think that's up to to other people to decide how they want to live their own life, however, i genuinely love traditional gender roles. I dont know maybe its the femininity of me that I like a masuline man. I like a guy that fights, plays sports, protects me, take cares of me, etc. I dont see why this is all a fuss nowadays but to everyone its different. I personally love being a girl and having traditional gender roles for myself personally bt that doesn't mean i would go and tell everyone how to live their life. This is my business so long as im not hurting anyone I dont think it should matter. Hope this helps!

[devilish-cutie]

I think its never that simple, rarely anyone is really extremely conservative or extremely liberal. We are all kinda mix inbetween. I have voted D. but that doesn't make me extreme liberal. I dont believe in gender roles but I believe we should all treat eachother with kindness and respect. I dont think you should wait for marriage for sex but I wouldn't sleep with just anyone and am really picky, I am looking for deep connection I share with someone. To me marriage isn't irrelavant but it isn't that relevant either. Its more about how you feel with someone, does it feel right to have sex with that person and how connected you feel or just how you feel at that moment and point in your life. When i acted on things in my life how i felt and what made sense to me I rarely had any regrets.

[just_a_potato]

I think sex should be for marriages just to keep people from being heartbroken and on the other side is the religious aspect if you swing that way, but I didn't choose it since I know I'm not saving myself for marriage.

[loves2learn]

I don’t believe in waiting for marriage. I’m glad I waited for the right person. We balance work, home life, kids and household duties.

[Clairvear69]

I vote D I do what want, my body my rules. Is stupid where guy pay everything, when I get good job, he not want some of my money even if I get pay more?
If I go for meal with friend we count all our money to pay bill. Same if go with date we both pay

[Sevenpointfive]

i do not agree with having babies before marriage. a lot of women do this to make sure they are compatible with the guy fertility-wise, but i think that's naive and suggests they are too young for both marriage and pregnancy

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I believe in saving sex for marriage, and I believe in traditional gender roles.

[msc545]

This is 2021, not 1910. I DON'T believe in saving sex for marriage, and I DON'T believe in traditional gender roles.

[NathanDavis]

I guess I'm not traditional.

[modelUN242]

Traditional and saving sex until marriage.