I’m a bit confused. Sometimes my boyfriend play slaps me when we’re messing around. Only afterwards do I think... hmm I don’t think he should’ve done that. It happened earlier and I’m kind of freaked out... like it was enough for me to go ‘ouch’ and normally it isn’t so hard. I don’t believe he would ever do it out of anger; maybe it was a case of not knowing his own strength? Me and my boyfriend have a happy relationship in general and he isn’t an ‘angry’ or ‘violent’ person. Have any guys done this to their girlfriends? Or have any girls experienced this kind of ‘play’ slapping?