pretty much the title. Been dating for 3 years. He wants to live together before getting married. Live together for at least 1 yr before popping the question. I dont want to move in because I really do believe I been so open and honest with him plus I see him 5x a week and sleep over his house most of the time. But at the end he still wants to live together before marriage. And I don't. Rationate: I'm not a "car" you can test drive. It's an action with no commitment. And i see it as the easy way out if things get rough instead of working out. Plus you increase your chances of having a baby before marriage. I wanna leave at this point because I feel like I would be waiting a whole 2 years pretty much for him when I could just be happy and alone and then date someone else.