I had doubts at first because I was letting go of feelings for another woman. However, that woman was a bad match. She was always physically touching me, but never really engaged in conversation. I had respect for her as we worked together, but I later found out we did not share beliefs. The woman I'm getting to know now hasn't been physical, but much more engaging mentally and shares beliefs. I think she is pretty, but feel more attracted to her mind. I enjoy our conversations and joyfully await her messages. The only thing is I feel less physically intense towards her, but the previous woman likely messed with my head. I genuinely enjoy conversing with her, but am unsure if my feelings are idealistic.