So you have cheated?
What did I say on my first line?
What does it care how its classified then haha because anything more than kissing includes sex.
OkayYou are at a party and someone has mistletoe, you kiss them under it.Do you now go home and tell your husband of 20 years and your kids you have cheated and should get divorced?
I agree. He had sex so it doesn't even matter and your answer doesn't change.
Yeah kissing to sex is a huge leap lol.
Yeah just wanted to get a general view. Did she leave you after you cheated? Did you cheat more than once?
No actually full story, everyone thought it was funny as fuck.I was drunk, my mates wife was drunk we had a dance and kissed,We literally scared the shit out of each other and knew it was wrong. In life things like a kiss can be seen as a trip wire, ideally yes you should never be in that position, however shit happens, then when you kiss, you have very clear options, continue or stop.Stopping shows you actually have a level of restraint.
Okay yes a kiss is not too bad haha
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Did you leave immediately?
Yep, not someone to go with stuff like that, fact I caught one of my exs in the act and she tried to say it was innocent says a lot about people in my books
Makes sense how long were you guys dating when it happened?
We were engaged for 3 year and had been together for 5 in total
Yoh then I'd leave too! Do you think I should leave him even though at was early on in our relationship that he cheated? I just now wonder if he didn't cheat more because he wasn't honest with me.
Have you spoken to him about it? And tbh I have a saying that's once a cheat always a cheat so I doubt he would stay loyal anyway
I have but now I don't believe him when he says he won't do it again because he lied for so long about this one and even when I confronted him he tried to deny it before I showed him evidence so I don't know how to trust him
You can't there isn't any trust there at all... Your better of moving on and leaving him behind
Yes and it hurts like hell
Ya I know that feeling, sorry :(
Do you think the trust will ever come back?
Ug I wish this just didn't happen.
I bet you do, it hurts
Do you think she could trust you not to do it again? Or was the trust top broken?
She never found out. We broke up soon after that for another reason.
Would you ever cheat again? Do you feel guilty? Why did you cheat?
No, I would not. I cheated on her in a moment of weakness and regretted it.
Sex? Was there anything she couldve done differently that wouldve made you not cheat?
We were both virgins and I met a girl at a party that just very matter of factly if I wanted to have sex with her. I just went with it.