I have been unhappy with how things have been going in my long distant relationship. My girlfriend started nitpicking everything and almost every interaction we had was negative. So I told her that we need to start having fun again and building happy memories together. She later responds with "I understand what you saying. I just don't know how to respond or what to do". I told her she can take all the time she needs. 2 hours later she responds with "I don't need time". Thats the last thing she said for days. Almost feels like instead of just responding she wants me to say something that can be used against me like assuming etc. Should I just wait however long it takes or should I say something else. Im at a loss here.